Discovering the mystery of sin through the teaching of the Spirit of our loving God.
With Gods continual love and protection embracing me, I ask to know better the power of sin in the world and in my life.
The serious disciple correctly names sins and sinful attitudes only after overcoming three obstacles thrown up by postmodern culture.
The first obstacle. Our society has interpreted as social or political or economic malfunctions many actions and attitudes that a serious disciple recognizes as sin. Thus, when poverty-stricken parents totally neglect their children, they are exonerated of moral guilt because they are caught in a socioeconomic
trap. College students' promiscuity gets reduced to a statistic that too many think expresses no values.
The second obstacle. Our society has made religion a private affair, expecting all of us to discover our own truths and moral imperatives from within ourselves. We do not recognize that the truth links us together and error divides us. We do not recognize that each individual's interior behavior contributes to
the righteousness or to the sinfulness of our life world. Sin has become a matter between me and God.
The third obstacle. Our society has trivialized grave wrongdoing by changing its name. We name grave evils by a nice name, which makes it all right to do them. A woman "exercises her power over her own body" when she deliberately aborts the child in her womb. Blatant lying becomes "politics" or "an advertising gambit." In this way, we can gaze undisturbed on the most serious sins and feel that "Everybody does it," or "It's just the way our culture is."
Note these things about coming to a sound sense of sin in the world and in my self:
Every sane person can see the results of sin. They are all around us: Children starve and old people live neglected. The super-rich live meaningless lives and are envied for it. Governments spew poisons over jungles and over the faces of whole towns. Men and women live wretched lives in ghettos, haunted by
prostitution and murder.
But sin itself is a mystery. We cannot name it accurately ourselves. We need the Spirit of God to teach us.
¨ For many decades, we thought of sin as breaking a rule or a law. We overemphasized that side of sin. Now, we think of sin as rupturing the proper relationship between my self and my God, and even between myself and those whom God gives me to love. Finally, we have come to understand that sin means a rupturing of my relationship to my own selfacting inauthentically and abusing myself.
We are keenly aware of the brokenness in each human person. Our deep sufferings rise from our infancy and our childhood. We are plagued by attitudes and hang-ups that we took into ourselves before we had the use of reason. As a consequence, we tend to try to change sin into non-sin. We make it superego, or the tapes that run in my head, or neuroticisms. We need to recognize two things: We
who are neurotic or compelled remain free at the very deepest level to take responsibility for ourselves even while that freedom may be diminished or hard to use in some circumstances. And all of us who can gaze courageously at the disorder of human knowing and acting know that psychology's insights can help us appreciate the horror of sinin adult children of alcoholics, for instance, or in the brokenness of sexually abused adolescents.
We have come to recognize that we sin all along, and that we will live as sinful people until the day we die. This makes us sympathize with
sorrow in human existence. It need not make us lead sad lives. We live with sorrow instead of living shallow lives; we live with joy even as we know sorrow. The reason we can achieve this lies in
God the Lord will not let us come to truly appreciate how sinful we are until we have let God teach us how deeply and faithfully God loves us.
commit a deadly sin when we choose to live totally without God or the fellowship of the Church. The in-between we find harder to name: We commit a serious sin when we take a lot of alcohol at a party and then put our family into a car and drive it out onto a busy expressway.
In some significant measure, we do not attend enough to our serious sins. A deliberate lie to a loving spouse. Neglecting to help the poor, ever. Slothfully refusing to learn more about our beliefs so that we can grow in faith. Spreading ugly rumors about another person's private life. We do not recognize that
these are serious matters, not the way a cancerous liver is serious, but the way an arthritic knee is serious, or a stomach ulcer, or 20/40 vision. These serious matters need correcting, and if we take the physical ones to doctors, to whom ought we take the spiritual ones? ♦
Adapted from Joseph Tetlow, S.J., Choosing