Have you heard about, or read the book called I kissed dating good bye? If you haven't it is a great book. Especially if you are debating weither or not you are going to date. It talks about how God wants us to be ok with being single. How we can save our love for one person that we will spend the rest of our lives with and not fall into what the world says about dating. Anything that causes you to stumble, or tempts you in any way is a bad sign that it's not what God has planned for you. But if your not sure if this is right for you, pray about it. God will definintely show you what He wants you to do, because He knows your heart and if you sincerly want to know what He has planned, He will let you know.
I'm not saying dating is bad. It can be good! But, what we need to watch in dating relationship is that we are honoring God with our actions and our thoughts. It says in the bible that it's not a "requirment" to get married, but if we know that we will serve God more efficiently if we were married than get married! Same goes for dating relationships. You wouldn't date somone not worthy of marrying. We need to practice good healthy relationship while we are younger so we will want to seek good and healthy men who have the right mindset.
