How To Benefit Most From Your Reading

Some Do’s and Don’ts to Get a Good Reading
Do: Prepare yourself and have a purpose for the reading. Every psychic cringes when s/he asks a client what they want to know about and the answer is ‘the future’ - the future is a very broad subject, such an reply makes it hard for your reader to define the scope of the reading and focus in on what’s important to you now... Nothing may come in clearly and there may be a lot of fuzzy concepts floating around that are hard for the psychic to get clarity on. So, prepare a list of questions, and then prepare yourself. Clear your mind of the cares and worries of the day, then clear your heart and will of your projections and expectations - those “wants and wishes” that are so important to you can bounce back in a reading as fact, when it’s only your wishing so hard...	Don’t...expect the psychic to make your decisions for you. We’re often asked for lucky numbers and the most fortunate days for marriages, births, business ventures and so on. Numerologists and astrologists can give some good guidance for this. But if we were able to make such accurate predictions off the top of our heads every day, I can assure you, we wouldn’t be working so hard! Psychics can provide good insights and information - guidance - second opinions - but they can't run your life and the serious professionals certainly don’t want to. Use a reading as an additional source of information, then take your power and use your own instincts and intuition to know how best and when to apply what you learned from the reading. You will only get the information that God wants you to know, a reading will not fix your life just like reading a diet book will not automatically make you thinner. Be realistic.
Do: Give some feedback. A psychic can't work in a vacuum, we need a little feedback, too! If the reader is accurate (as far as you know), then let them know. If you feel he or she is on the wrong track, speak up. Of course, what you thought you wanted to discuss may never come up. The issue you asked about may never develop or die out. If a psychic is getting strong perceptions about some other area, he will let you know. Expect to be surprised. If you are clear and direct with the reader about what’s going on in your life and what you want to know right now, you’ll have a much better chance of getting an accurate reading that provides you with some good guidance and direction.	Don’t...assume the psychic has eyes in the back of their head. The “Stump the Psychic” game that skeptics encourage as a first step in getting a good reading is a waste of valuable time and money—and will often put even the best psychics off so that they lose their enthusiasm to read you. I definitely encourage folks to be somewhat skeptical—especially when someone is offering curse removal, but it’s truly a waste of time to hide your wedding rings and change your names or withhold information about your circumstances. However, if you want the reader to focus on the future, give him or her a little background so the time spent is not getting validation on what you already know. Time goes very quickly in a reading and you may have the psychic spend most of it going over the past.
Do: Choose the time carefully. Avoid doing a reading when you’re depressed - unless that’s what you want the reading to be focused on. While a reading in the midst of a crisis can be useful in helping you figure out how to deal with it, it’s definitely not the best time for a Life reading, since anything that shows up at the moment will be influenced by the crisis. It’s best to wait until the dust has settled before you take a longer-range view of your life... If you do decide to get a reading when life seems difficult, be prepared to hear some information you may not want to hear. You may have some big changes to make in order to get your life back in order. Before the reading, take a few deep breaths, ground yourself, and try to generate some loving peaceful energy around you.	Don’t: Expect a serious reading, unless you’re taking it seriously. If you’ve been taking alcohol or drugs, it can be very difficult for even the best readers to wade through the fog to find the clear answers you’re wanting. If you’ve just eaten a big meal, had a fight with your partner, or you’re not feeling well, these also can impact the quality of the reading - and the tone. So, even if you’re doing the reading “just for fun,” take it a little seriously: calm and clear yourself, even for a few minutes, before you sit down for the reading so your energy is strong and balanced. Remember, you are getting Divine information--this is a gift! If you have a negative attitude then the messages that come through to the psychic may be negative also.

How to Get the Best Psychic Reading?

Creating the right atmosphere.
It's best if you feel you are in a safe place, relaxed, comfortable and open-minded. Why? Because tension creates a barrier. Also, if you are overly skeptical or very upset about something, it is as if your doors are closed, and no psychic intuitive counselor can easily get through that barrier. It is important that you are willing to give me your permission to "psychically look" into your condition and relative issue.

Being willing to participate.
A good psychic reading is a two way street interaction. The more aware you are of your issues and corresponding questions, the more effective the reading will be. A psychic reading which has a specific focus will usually be more satisfactory than a "general" reading which has no real focus.

Some of the areas you might ask questions in: relationships, family, career, studies, health, life's purpose, spiritual path, loved ones here, and passed over into the spirit world.

Having realistic expectations.
The way life really works is the same way a psychic reading works. It comes in "bits and pieces". That is to say, we receive life's information in fragments and then we must figure out how best to use the information. We cannot see our life from start to finish. The best we can do is be present to what is in our life in the moment and act accordingly. Psychic secret; psychic information comes in flashes, bits & pieces, and slices. No psychic can see all aspects of your life, make your problems disappear, or provide for your dreams to come true! But, we do promise a few valuable insights, some clarity which can give you the opportunity for making better decisions for your best and highest good. Remember, your life is the product of your free will and the decisions you have made; so is the rest of your life and a psychic reading can help with those future decisions.

Ask for clarification when needed.
If you don't understand something I'm saying, please ask for clarification. Non-understandings and misunderstandings are easy and can be common in psychic readings. We all have different backgrounds and therefore can have different frames of reference for words or phrases. So if something is not understood, please ask.

How do you tell if you’ve had a good reading?

Most readers can tell when ‘the energy is running’ within seconds of starting a reading, but there are three simple ways you can know when a reading is right:

1. The reading feels complete - “completion” means you have insights on what’s going on around you, as well as information about what you can do about it: you have had clear answers to all of your questions, and you have no more questions. No matter what a client has paid for, we do not end a reading until it comes to it’s natural conclusion, until it “feels complete” Both you and the reader will know when that moment has come - so hang in there asking questions until you feel complete with the reading.
   
   
2. You resonate with the reading - this means that the reader has accurately described you and the circumstances of your life and the events s/he predicts are possible in your life, given where you are now... On the other hand, we’ve often predicted events such as marriages, births, changes of staff, winnings and losses that our clients didn’t believe possible, but occurred anyway... Readers can be very good at seeing those unexpected, unplanned, seemingly impossible events that delight, surprise and sometimes take us aback... but even then, I would distrust someone’s telling me I was about to win a million if the rest of their reading didn’t generally fit my life.... However, if the rest of the reading resonates, I’ll be out buying the ticket in a flash!
   
   
3. You feel good when the reading has been completed. You should feel good about the reading, even if the reader has told you something you didn’t want to hear - ‘he’s not coming back, dear,’ is one of our most difficult and least well-received messages... If your reader is delivering bad news, s/he should also be delivering you some information about how to cope, what the purpose of this event is, how you can avoid or minimize it and what the positive effects of this event will be in the long term... Otherwise, take the information with a grain of salt, refuse to be scared by it, and don’t go back to that reader again! Every good psychic is also a healer and a reading is intended to be a HEALING experience, so if you don’t come away feeling good, then it probably wasn’t a good reading.

Remember, a good reading is COMPLETE, Feels RIGHT, and makes you feel GOOD!