The Essence Of The Black Rose

Ok well there are all these new trends right? Well what you want to do  is play the role of spy, you copy what a popular kid is wearing and you start wearing stuff like that. But you don't want to copy a popular kid's attitude they are usually bosy and or mean. Be nice and you will have tons of friends. Don't hang-out with nerdy stuck-up geeks either. You would not want some one to make-fun of you because of that so instead make them popular as well and then hang-out with them. If a popular kid asks you to go someplace with them next weekend say yes, and convince your parents to say yes too, never say no to a popular kid. Or they will attempt to make you un-popular again. If you have any further questions or comments feel free to e-mail Liz at nion39@bellsouth.net and in your subject box on the e-mail type 'How To Become Popular'. I will always reply to your e-mails I never refuse even the smallest question and or comment.

~Liz

If you want to ask someone out my best advice for you is to just be plain honest, go up to them and say Hi. Introduce your self and become good friends then ask them if they want to hook up with you, take this process slowly or they will say no. Never lie to a boy/girl friend if you do they will find out the truth, and believe me now one likes someone who lies I know I don't. So be honest =) If you have any questions or comments feel free to e-mail Liz at nion39@bellsouth.net and in the subject box on your e-mail type in 'Asking Someone Out On A Date'.

~Liz

Ok first off Always have a positive attitude towards people. Smile at tehm, wave when you see them and say "hi, how are you". People like this and will think that you are a nice person for saying hello and asking them how they are. People will want ot be your friend and most importantly. They will respect you and you will become popular and have lots of really good friends and keep this in mind too. Winning isn't everything, sometimes it is good to win and feel good about ourselves, but dont try to hard no one likes someone who is overly-competetive and always wining or bragging about how they are so good at what they do. I dont mean to sound like anyone's mother im just offering some advice. If you have any questions or comments feel free to e-mail me at nion39@bellsouth.net and type 'Making Friends And Keeping Them' in the subject line I'll be sure to e-mail you back, I check my e-mail everyday so you will get a reply soon if you e-mail me.

~Liz

Hi It's Liz well for this topic I have some great advice, when I am bored I usually watch T.V, but what would you do if there was nothing to watch on T.V. Well You could play on computer I know some great sites: www.runescape.com, www.quizilla.com, www.myspace.com, www.freewebs.com, www.neopets.com, www.findyourfate.com, www.testriffic.com and of course my site www.freewebs.com/theessenceoftheblackrose. You could also play computer games on your computer here are some 5 star rated ones by my site: The Sims Collection, The Sims 2 Collection, The Zoo Tycoon Collection, The Roller Coaster Tycoon Collection, and many more! E-mail me at nion39@bellsouth.net and type 'What To Do When You Are Bored' in the subject line of your e-mail for more ideas!

~Liz

There is no such thing as being "perfect", well there is no such thing as being "beautiful" either. You have to try to look at yourself from a different point of view. Instead of constantly putting yourself down, think about all of your great features about you that other people envy. Maybe you have a perfectly sculpted nose, or a curvy tummy? No matter what your favorite feature is about you, play it up! Make that feature stand out so people notice how lovely you really are. If your lips are your worst feature, try different shades of lipgloss and lipstick. Maybe add some glitter, you never know what will attract other people. We are all beautiful in our own ways. If you have any questions, comments, or criticism feel free to e-mail me at nion39@bellsouth.net and type 'How To Be Beautiful' in the subject line of the e-mail.

~Liz

If you really want something you will work really hard towards finding ways to get it. For instance you want that new phone that just came out, but your parents say it's "too expensive" or "they don't have the money right now". Well, make a list of the pros and cons of the item you want. Why do you want it? For a good reason, hopefully. If you just want something because everyone else has it, or the boy you like thinks it's cool. That's not a good reason to waste your money on that new phone. If you really want it, work for it. Show your parents you are responsible and save up your money, then there will be no reason for them to say no. Just make sure whatever you do want is within reason. If you have any questions, comments, or criticism feel free to e-mail at nion39@bellsouth.net and type 'How To Get What You Want When You Want It' in the subject line of the e-mail.

~Liz