When you receive an email, click the "Show original" (Gmail) or "Full Headers" (Yahoo) on the email page. Look for X-Mailer: The Bat! on the left hand side. If you find it or if it has FC'2000 or Becky, then you have a scammer. If the scammer removed it, check the ip address next to Received: from ? Some "Received from" ip addresses may show the server in the U.S..
Enter all "Received from" ip addresses here: http://www.ripe.net/fcgi-bin/whois . Enter the ip address in the "Search for" box then click "Search". Check the "address:". If the results show the ISP from Mari El Net - you are talking to a scammer. If the results are not from her city then she is a scammer.
For more details,click the links above:"The Bat! examples" and "Russian Dating Scam" .
Elena places her personal ads on "Christian" or "Single" websites. She is very deceptive. She sounds so real and responds to everything you write. Like talking to the girl next door. She called me on the phone. She is a woman, perhaps not the one pictured, but there is a woman at the other end. She writes very touching and sensitive letters about her loneliness and what you mean to her without mentioning money or asking for it. I checked her ip address when it was too late. After 2 weeks of not writing, she emailed me admitting she deceived me and she hoped I could find a wife for myself in America. She said I was "dear to her" and told me never to send money to anyone. Maybe she felt guilty or was afraid of getting caught.