These are the solutions:
1> Delete your original Ares Installation file (e.g aresregular209_installer.exe). Now re-download Ares P2P from her. Install the New ares. Note: DO NOT USE OTHER ARES APART FROM THE ONE DOWNLOADED FROM SOURCEFORGE. ARES IS A FREE Software.
2> Use Nodes. Still working on this one.
3> Add Ares P2P to your FireWall Exceptions.
4> Sweep Your Computer for Viruses/Spyware/Trojans/Malwares.
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