http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/702/ _______________________________________________________ If you click on the first link, entitled "Consumed with Conceiving", you will find the inspiration for this rant. Or, if you don't feel the urge to open the link, then here's the point of the story summed up into one sentence: Wannabreeder wants a baby RIGHT NOW, and her husband says they are nowhere near ready. Sooo, they take it to good ol' Dr. Phil, who I find to be an idiot most of the time. This is the guy who encourages gentle discipline and all the shit about reasoning with unruly hellcats, but I digress. I pulled this excerpt from the article - this is from the baby rabid wannabreeder: "Steve gives me all kinds of excuses. He says he's not emotionally ready. We're not financially ready. I just don't believe it," Heather shares. "Even if we got pregnant tomorrow, we'd have at least nine months to save. Isn't that enough?" She turns to Dr. Phil for help. "I don't want to be an old mother. Why should I have to wait?" she asks. "What do you think?" But I thought people were always emotionally prepared for a child, because they are precious cherubic miracles bestowed upon lucky people by the good Lord himself. Yes, having an inadequate amount of money to properly raise and care for a child is a shitty excuse to refuse to bear children. We all know how, once the loaf gets shit out, everything will fall perfectly into place and money will start to fall from the sky for these people. Making a family is a wonderful miracle of God, don't you know? Nothing can ever go wrong when you're making a baby. _______________________________________________________ Wake the fuck up, you dumb cunt! First of all, her husband provides logical reasons for not wanting to have a child yet - not being ready financially or emotionally are damn fine reasons to not want kids, and I really wish more people would think with this mindset when considering spawning. These are not "excuses", as wanna-Moo calls them. Why should she have to wait? Because you're not fucking ready to have a child, that's why. Just because you want a child doesn't mean you're actually ready. Any dumb bint who believes that her and her partner can save up enough money for a baby in nine months when they are already living paycheck to paycheck needs to be thoroughly educated in the costs of raising a child. It's pretty easy to tell the wanna-Moo has a pretty strong sense of entitlement; she's got the "I need the baby now, gimme gimme gimme! How dare you deprive me of what I want, even if you don't want it" attitude, and it's disgusting. I guarantee she will become the type of woman who dotes on the baby and doesn't even blink at her husband unless she needs money or a free baby-sitter. Then when Hubby starts fucking with other women behind her back, she's going to wonder why. I feel bad for the guy, having to put up with this shit from this woman and then getting roasted on television about it. At the very least, Dr. Phil pulled his head out of his ass for once and agreed with the logical argument. The guy would probably be better off getting away from his baby-rabid wife before she oopses him; it's pretty obvious from her attitude that she is the type who would feel no shame in oopsing her husband or getting pregnant through an affair and claiming her husband is the father of any children who may be conceived. Breeders and their likes make me sick. |