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Who's Telling OUR Stories?

Who's Telling OUR Stories?

Posted by Robin Monique at 12:42 PM on January 27, 2009

I cannot remember the last time I actually purchased a book. As a former book addict, I am unnerved by the fact that in the last three months, I have only read one book from cover to cover.


While sitting in my bedroom, thirsty for something to read, I perused my book collection. I was saddened when I realized that every book that I actually liked, I'd read at least three times. So I began having a conversation on Twitter asking why no authors were writing books about women like me. Smart, sexy, sassy 20somethings who are just trying to learn the ropes of adult life sans baby mama drama and/or drug dealing boyfriends. I got some great suggestions on classics by Nella Larsen and Zora Neale Hurston from folks like Danyell Smith (EIC of Vibe) and Alfred Edmonds, Jr, (EIC of Black Enterprise) [Sidenote: I'm still amazed, humbled, and reduced to fandom every time one of them replies to my Twits!]. And while I know these are great authors, I had something a little more modern in mind.


As a young'n, I devoured the works of authors who captured black women of their time. An advanced reader, I read Waiting to Exhale for the first time when I was ten. And I'm willing to admit that my early concept of womanhood was shaped by the characters depicted in novels by Terry McMillan, Connie Briscoe, Lolita Files, Yolanda Joe, and Pearl Cleage. And yes, while their characters did make mistakes, they were still sharp, intelligent sistas who on occasion made some dumb decisions, but always bounced back more fabulous than ever.


Now that I'm 25, I'm wondering where is the "Waiting to Exhale" of my generation? Of course, I still appreciate the works of my Older Aunties in Chick Lit, but they're telling their own stories, ripe with mid-life crisis issues that while interesting, are completely unrelatable to my everyday life. And the books currently being written about black women of my generation do not speak to me at all. I'm a gainfully-degreed entreprenuer in the making, so pardon me if I don't feel compelled to pick up "Hood Chicks Part Four," "Ride or Die Bitch 6," or "3 Baby Daddies." Nor am I interested in their Christian Lit counterparts "Save Me Jesus." "He Who Findeth a Wife," or  "Divas of the Pulpit." To be honest, with the cheap cover art, the only way I can tell these two genres apart on shelves is the amount of clothing worn by the chicks on the covers. OH, and I forgot their cousin, Black Erotic Fiction. Now I'll admit that Zane and Mary B. Morrison help me out when I'm trying be one with myself  ;) BUT I take those books for exactly what they are: porn. It serves an important function, but art it is not.


Lately, I relate more to the characters in Lauren Weisberger books (author of "The Devil Wears Prada") than I do to any of the sistas on the fiction shelves these days. Is it that no one is trying to tell these stories or are publishers just not interested in printing them?


In my Twitter rant about Black Chick Lit, one of my mentors, the great PR maven Robin Caldwell said that these stories weren't being told because sharp, intelligent, classy Black women were "out of style. But we're coming back, so get to writing!"


It looks like I'll have to be the change I want to see in the fiction world and do just that.

Categories: Cultural Critiques, Aspirations

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9 Comments

Reply Dawven
01:39 PM on January 27, 2009
I agree. I have been looking for a good novel for the longest time. I had basically given up and am now reading through Malcolm Gladwell's collection and I hope to find a good novel this year. If you find any good ones please let a girl know smile
Reply Davi
02:16 PM on January 27, 2009
Robin,
I totally agree! For the past couple of years I have been stumped by the lack of books about young positive Black women that don't revolve around a man or seeking salvation. Those hood books in my account aren't NOT literature! I don't take anything away from the Authors but really when will the stories about how a young Black woman went from college to being EIC at national publications get published by the dozens just as the stories of the ride or die chicks smuggling drugs...really this is sad!
Reply 1/3
02:33 PM on January 27, 2009
I wonder that too. It seems like there is little to nothing that can help explain the journey to adulthood if u live a semi drama free life. I know no one told me that life after college was gonna be this hard. I know life is what u make it but it would be nice to know of a story of a 20 something who is like me for a change lol. please be the one to write it! Ill love to see your insight!!!:-)
Reply Toni
08:17 PM on January 27, 2009
It's like you were a fly on the wall during a conversation I had with my homegirl. I love to read but stay largely away from the African American fiction section because I cannot relate to all the drama in many of those books. I guess I need to dust off the old laptop and start to write one myself.
Reply Dessex
10:13 PM on January 27, 2009
See I told you should write a book. I am a big reader myself but lately there hasn't been much to catch my eye, I think the book world is wack like hip hop
Reply Dessex
10:13 PM on January 27, 2009
See I told you should write a book. I am a big reader myself but lately there hasn't been much to catch my eye, I think the book world is wack like hip hop
Reply Jada
01:18 AM on January 30, 2009
You know I never really stopped to consider this but dang you're right! I too was an avid reader, devouring books like Roots, Queen, Terry McMillan and anything I could get my hands on at a very young age. As I got a lil older I did read a couple of the Hood books, B-More Careful, true to the game. But that quickly became BORING and redundant! The shelves are overly saturated with these books now...and I just can't relate. Cause I ain't finna go to jail or kill for nan nagga.

So why don't you go on and do the world a favor and write something to reflect intelligent, black ,20-something men and women.
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