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Message for Social Workers

My site and that of those listed
below, are for parents and families
(The people you are supposed to
protect, remember us?)

Please bear in mind that while you
may think I have some sort of
pathetic vendetta against you, I
don't.

Nor do any of the other parents who
are all working together in our fight
for justice.

After all, it's not your fault - thats
just the way you are

(it's society, or the law, or maybe
the government. I have heard all
your lame excuses first and second
hand)

Well, some of you, This is not
intended for the 3 or 4 decent social
workers who work in the UK.

As you will now be aware, We, The
Parents, are fighting back, you see
it's simple... you can only push a
person so far before they break...
When you break them, they release
their anger, when the anger is
released... god help the bully of a
victimised parent.

Don't think we are looking for
sympathy, we'll keep that for the
children whose lives have been
destroyed, crapped on and ripped
apart.

We do understand you have a job to
do, but it begs the question - Why
are you not doing it?

Why must you lie?

Why must you wreck happy homes?

I don't know... Have you missed
those children who are abused?

Here is something I want to know...

why, do
my friends, who have family
prepared to take their children in,
get REFUSED?

Is it really in the best interest of the
child to cut all ties with their entire
natural family?

Or is it money? Power? Control?

Maybe all of the above 3.

If you are a social worker, I think
you should sit back, and take a good
hard look at yourself.

Then take a good long hard look at
your own children.

HOW WOULD YOU FEEL AT
CHRISTMAS, OR ANY TIME OF THE
YEAR WITHOUT THEM?

Believe it or not, you yourself are
not 'Perfect Parents'

Nor are we.

You show me one person who
claims to be the perfect parent, and
I will show you a LIAR.

You see, here's the thing, You say
we are 'bad parents'

And yet here we are telling the
world, and the British Legal System
we are not.

If we were bad parents, i dont think
we would be so public in denying it,
If we were bad parents, we would
be hiding from the world ashamed
of ourselves.

Do you honestly think we would be
going to all this trouble, if you were
right?

I mean look at my website... Hours
of work and blood sweat and real
tears have gone into this, and of
JustJustice, Freebird230773,
OneStopCafe, PAIN, A few Spaces
Live, to name only but a few.

So you see, soon the world will
realise how wrong you are, The
government will have no choice but
to sit up and take notice, The legal
system Will HAVE to change, and
families WILL be reunited.

The last few years have been
yours....Welcome to 2007- OUR
YEAR.

Thank you.

 



Lyrics to Fighter


FIGHTER

After all you put me through,
You'd think I'd despise you,
But in the end, I want to
Thank You,
Cause
you made me
that much STRONGER.


Well I,
thought I knew you Thinking, that you were true I guess I, I couldn't trust 'Cause your bluff time is up 'Cause I've had enough You were there by my side Always, down for the ride But your, joy ride just
came down in flames
'Cause your greed sold me
out of shame, mmhmm After all of the stealing and cheating You probably think that I hold
resentment for you But, uh uh, oh no,

you're wrong
'Cause if it wasn't for all that
you tried to do I wouldn't know just
how capable I am to pull through
So I wanna say thank you 'Cause it makes me that much
stronger Makes me
work a little bit harder It makes me that much
wiser So thanks for making me a fighter Made me learn a little bit faster Made my skin a little bit thicker Makes me that much smarter So thanks for making me a fighter Oh, ohh Never, saw it coming All of, your backstabbing Just so, you could cash in On a good thing before
I realized your game
I heard, you're going around Playing, the victim now But don't, even begin
Feeling I'm the one to blame 'Cause you dug your own grave,
uh huh After all of the fights and the
lies Yes you wanted to harm me
but that won't work anymore Uh, no more, oh no,
it's over 'Cause if it wasn't for all of
your torture
I wouldn't know how to be this way now,
and
never back down So I wanna say thank you 'Cause it makes me that much stronger Makes me work a little bit harder Makes me that much wiser So thanks for making me a fighter Made me learn a little bit faster Made my skin a little bit thicker It makes me that much smarter So thanks for making me a fighter
How could this man I thought I knew 
Turn out to be unjust, so cruel
Could only see the good in you
Pretended not to see the truth
You
tried to hide your lies,
disguise yourself
Through living in denial
But in the end you'll see
YOU - WON'T
- STOP - ME!!!
I am a fighter

and I
I ain't goin' stop
There is no turning back
I've had enough


'Cause it makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
It makes me that much
wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
Makes me that much
smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

Thought I would forget
But I remember

I'll remember, I'll remember

Thought I would forget
But I remember

I'll remember, I'll remember
 

'Cause it makes me that much
stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
It makes me that much
wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
Makes me that much
smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

 




Forced Adoption HAS to be abolished!!!!

Thousands of parents every year are losing their children to 'Forced Adoption'.

This is neither Fair or Just.

Everyday, loving parents lose their precious children on HEARSAY, PROBABILITIES, and what 'experts' THINK what MIGHT happen!

In 2007 -  this is an absolute joke.

Parents who lose their children to forced adoption are forced to just accept the decision of the courts, they are not allowed any witnesses to speak up for them, there is no jury, there is no fairness. They are not allowed to speak publicly of the goings on in SECRET family courts to the press or media! Many infringements of the parents and THE CHILDS human rights!!

Everyday Social Workers, Psychologists and other medical experts, and even JUDGES are breaking the law by commiting perjury and this just cannot be alowed to go on.

It is often the case that these "EXPERTS" THINK the child/ren in question may be subject to 'future emotional harm or abuse'

So what would you call taking a child away from their loving family to be placed with strangers and moved from pillar to post in care homes and foster families?This IS emotional abuse!!!!

This happens too often because of adoption Targets, set by TONY BLAIR AND THE LABOUR GOVERNMENT.

In effect - here is the most likely scenario of a forced adoption:

A child is taken from their mother because a "medical professional" has stated the mother will probably cause significant future emotional harm to that child.

The child is placed in foster care, with strangers.

In the foster placement there are already children there who bully 'the new kid'

The child becomes unsettled in there new place and is then moved to live with a different family, MORE STRANGERS

Again this doesn't work, so the child is moved again.

This time there are no foster homes available so the child is placed in residential care, where the care workers are either peadofiles, rapists, criminals or just have no control over the children at all.

The child is allowed to run riot and experiment with drugs, alcohol and often become sexually active in their early teens.

The child ends up with a drink or drug habit. because they have no qualifications so they turn to crime.

Eventually they end up in jail, but then because 49% of all prisoners in the UK are care leavers, there is no room in the prisons.

All of this comes down to money.

But its wasted, the Government make money by having these children adopted, yet the Government also have to pay for them when they are in prison.

Its a vicous circle, and at the heart of it.... IS TONY BLAIR.

It's the time for change, the removal of a child without a shadow of a doubt MUST be the absolute last resort, there must be CONCRETE evidence to show this child is in danger.

To Me and many others here is my opinion of abuse and neglect.

ABUSE: Purpously Physically harming a child in any way, Hitting a child, Bruising a child, Stubbing cigarettes out in childs body, pouring boiling water over childs body, burning a child with an Iron or any other hot implement such as cooker hob, hair straightners etc etc, Kicking the child, Punching the child, jamming the childs fingers in a door, Drawing blood on the child, and everything closley related with these.

NEGLECT: Starving a child, Ignoring the child, Not changing childs nappy or clothes, Not bathing the child, Leaving child sitting in a room on their own all day, Not meeting the childs physical or emotional needs, Not showing a child any affection at all. And all closely related matters.

Then I AGREE the child would be better off living with a relative until the PRIMARY carer (Mum, Dad, Carer) can resolve these issues. (Except in cases of extreme and severe abuse).

UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD A CHILD BE REMOVED FROM THE NATURAL FAMILY IF THERE IS A FAMILY MEMBER WILLING TO ACCEPT RESPOSIBILITY FOR THE CHILD UNTIL THEY ARE 18 YEARS OLD.

Adoption should be voluntry, in the circumstance a mother wants her baby to be cared for by a family in the case she cannot or will not do it her self.

Crime rates would fall and children and families would be happier.

 

 

 

    

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