My past experience:

Prior to migrating to Australia I had experience with both males and females. I even try marriage for a period of time. In the US where I born, my sexual experience was exclusively with black men. I was versatile at that point in my life and I thought in terms of top and bottom. I enjoyed topping men who were masculine or camp and was turned off by feminine guys. I also enjoyed being bottom for guys who I considered to be as masculine as I was or who considered themselves as being butch or trade. The present vernacular is; Mug boys, or Thugs which is no reflection on criminal behavior but more to do with attitude and how one carried and expressed himself. During this whole time I was completely Vanilla. Most of my play was 1 on 1 and a few group sessions from time to time.

Assimilation:   After migrating here things at first was pretty much the same, with exceptions to race. I now found myself having sex with almost all white guys and no black men at all, then a variation of races, however play remained pretty much vanilla. As you may already know there arent many black gay men in Sydney Australia. What surprised me was I found myself being pursue by mainly white men who only wanted to be topped. Mainly because black men are perceived to be tops and hung! So I was more of a curiosity than anything else and was reduced to being a sex object.

This pretty much went on for a number of years until I came across a guy who was into the leather scene. I was exposed to other forms of play and I grew comfortable with the leather scene after gaining more exposure to it. I did a lot of solo exploration, became more adventurous and knowledgeable. Then I found myself to be slowly gravitating to this form of play. The thing is guys who were vanilla bottoms were still pursuing me. My attempt to change this was to commit to only having non-vanilla sex with guys who were Dominants or Submissive and guys interested in mutual play. As a result of this I found myself being locked into a dominant role.

I enjoy dominating guys sexually. Yet I found I was missing out because I could not experience what I doing with submissive’s first hand. They simply couldn’t reciprocate and had no desire to. So, for me it began to feel one sided as though I was servicing them like passive only bottoms who’s only motivation is sucking cock, being fucked or seeing you cum. The ones that I do enjoy are those who are aggressive even if submissive. All others I consider them as dead fucks! I’m getting pretty much bored with this and I have kept an open mind and an eye out for at least one guy, who might be interested in doming me for a change. There are a few forms of play that I wish to explore. However, by normally assuming the dominant role myself, I realized that in regards to these forms of play. I would only want to receive this from one man and one guy only.

This webpage is being created for that potential guy to review. You are reading this because you have contacted me online or I have approach you. It is to inform you of what I’m into, looking for and what my limitations are. This is the easiest way you can make an assessment and decide if you wish to proceed. If so the only thing left would be to exchange facial and other photos and decide when and where for you to hold your 1^st inspection. With the intent of meeting on a regular casual basis as fuck buddies…or start a training program tailored to your needs. My 1st preference for inspection would be in my home or a local sex on premises venue...ie Headquarters. We both know non-vanilla sex play can reach different levels of intensity. This means I have to enjoy the guys company, find him sexy and be able to relax and trust him to be responsible enough to see that Im enjoying being used and abused. Getting together for a “hookup” just wont cut it and it would restrict certain forms of play I would be involved with or even consider. This is the approach I take when I’m in the dominant role and I would expect no less.

I will attempt to list all aspects of sexual play and even though I am versatile I am only speaking in terms of me partaking in a mutual or totally submissive role. I will try to explain what experience I have had, what some of my limitations are at this point and what I’m looking forward to experiencing. There will be some things not listed and it doesn’t mean I will not do them or have no interest in them. It might because I don’t know you well enough to confide that side of me with you or it has slipped my mind. You should also be aware I intend to be as honest and open about my sexuality. There may be some things listed that you have no interest in, no experience in but been curious to try. In either case it will leave us something to discuss at a later date. This merely to give an overview of what I’m about. My limits would be few as a submissive, where as a dominant I would say I have none, except where I lack the knowledge or skills to perform them. My sub’s limits have been my limits during our sessions. He just indicates what areas he wishes to expand in and then I take free reign. You will not be able to read or absorb all of this material in one viewing. Reason being it will be very long and it took me more than one sitting to compile it. I have done so because I know exactly the kind of man I want to serve sexually. Many say this yet they don’t really have a clue. Yet, I’m sure after reading you will have no doubts in your mind if we should even attempt to meet. If you do think there is something in it, you will know if:

• We are not suited
• Further discussion would be needed
• Rather it is best to try a mutual situation or you take the dominant role
• Meet as fuck buddies but only with specific areas of play in mind

We both know everything would be based on sexual attraction to one another. Once we meet do have the chemistry that it takes and rather we both enjoy the session. We know this is the primary thing we have to face in order to decide if it will be an ongoing thing. Neither of us expects to do everything on the 1^st meet/inspection. Yet the intention is, it’s meant to be more than a quick hookup unless we both agreed that’s what it is about prior to meeting.

ORAL

Not much to comment on this! We both know what oral involves. Yet as far as I’m concerned when a guy sucks cock he has two techniques to choose from. They are:

• Blowjobs – Which is basic cock sucking and consist of nothing more than bobbing up and down on a guy’s cock. A little suction, licking but the majority of the time he doing nothing more than bobbing up and down on it. He is more focus on his own pleasure and he is trying to “make” you shoot in order to see or taste your cum. He gets very impatient if you don’t respond on his cue!

• Cock Worship – This means the guy is trying to give YOU full pleasure of the experience. He is not putting you on a stopwatch expecting you to perform on cue! It doesn’t matter rather or not you crack a fat. He wants to savior every moment. He slowly sniffs your crotch through your jocks to get acquainted with your scent. Waits for you to peel them off in anticipation so that he can inspect that raw flesh. He looks at it and get familiar with the texture, the size and a good sub isn’t focus on size. To a cock worshipper size doesn’t matter. He then sniffs the raw scent and sniffs from the tip of the head down the shaft so he can smell your balls. Buries his face into your crotch so your scent covers his face. Then he starts giving the “blowjob” but the difference is he attempts to maintain the “suction” action. Working from the head and slowly allows that dick to snake deep down his throat. He understands that it is the deep throating and suction that his man enjoys. He doesn’t mind being given instructions how and when to do what. He enjoys having his throat fuck be it gently or intentionally attempting to make him gag. He’s there solely to please his man and enjoys being used and abused. It is up to his man when and if he shoots his load. Be it on his face, lips, tongue, or deep down his throat. In his mind he is sucking the cock of a deity! Over time and with practice he is willing to take all fluids be, it cum or piss.

ANAL

As I write this it has been 3 years since I have last been fucked or received any anal play at all! So I would be very ginger assed. Meaning I could be slowly penetrated with a cock providing I have plenty of amyl to snort and my DOM understands that he would have to slowly push it in. I would more than likely want to slowly ease back on it so that it stretches my hole slowly without him fucking me until it is all the way in. Once this happens I would relax and get over being nervous about this. Then all I would ask is that he makes sure I’m well lubed and moist before he starts humping, grinding and screwing my ass slowly. This will make me more responsive and I would enjoy it better. Then depending on my frame of mind base on pre play and amount of alcohol, smoke or other consumed. He will be able to judge if I’m up for a good hard pounding.

From past memories…I do remember that when I was being fucked. When a guy pulls out and forces re-entry a lot, this makes my ass raw and sore. It become very painful and usually hurts so bad it changes my mood where I request a break. If he persists I will demand that he stops become agro and resist!

Yet I do remember when I use to play solo with dildo’s I would enjoy that activity more. I had at one time reached a pretty good size toys. Then being locked into a dominant role I stopped having solo dildo sessions because I didn’t continue getting pleasure this way. Mainly because of the awkwardness of solo play and doing yourself you could only abuse yourself to a certain level. So I would also like to return to dildo play as well eventually at the hand of my DOM. Of course the same amount of patience would also apply.

Note: When comes to dildo’s I would prefer to at least start with smooth textured toys, gel toys if possible. From memory I enjoy it more “initially” when only being penetrated with them. I enjoy the feeling of them stretch my hole for depth 1^st and then width. Like being fucked…at first I didn’t enjoy them being twisted inside my ass or being hard/fast fucked with them. It was only when I got to larger thicker toys did I enjoy being fucked with them. Even then I didn’t like them being twisted around in my ass “hard and fast”. But yes with my DOM I would train with the goal that he be able to use and abuse my ass however he wanted. Yet this form of anal play I’m not interested in doing with a guy who is just a hookup. Only to a regular fuck buddy or a regular DOM would I submit my ass willingly for use and abuse. I already know I want my ass fisted, but I will cover this later under fetishes.

NIPPLE PLAY

I had both of my nipples pierced about 3 years ago. The rings are permanents and can’t be removed unless I pay a visit to a professional. They have made my nipples sensitive in different ways. Nipple play arouses me and makes and lifts my horniness. I really get off on a guy who gives good nipple play and I don’t mind jacking off while receiving it. At the moment this is a list of what I enjoy.

·        I enjoy them tweaked

·        Sucked on or suction cups

·        Tugged at

·        Pulled

·        Stretched

·        Weights applied

·        Nibbled on or gnawed at med/hard

·        Wooden pegs, [metal ones seem to hurt now but didn’t before!]

I don’t mind light biting as long as teeth or other forms of play doesn’t break the skin causing them to bleed or scab up. There are other forms of play I’m curious to try. Like after my nipples are perky having twine wrapped around them. To experience another level of pain threshold, after trust is build maybe have them hot waxed and eventually I would be gain to try a mild/med form of electro being applied.

Note: I don’t think in the short term at least, that I would want them pierced with needles.

CBT – COCK and BALL TORTURE

I have enjoy a few forms of this…both solo and few mutual session. I experimented on myself mainly to see what it feels like before applying to others. I will like to explore even more in mutual or at the hand of my DOM. So far this is my experience:

• Various cock rings
• Ropes wrapped around my balls
• Wooden pegs applied to both cock and balls
• Ball weights
• Ball stretchers
• Chastity device
• Tugging and light/med pulling
• Cock spanked with riding crop, light/med
• Pressure bandage wrapped around balls and cock
• Pumping

It seems to depend on the guy’s touch that is difficult to explain. I like my balls being stretched and tugged at…but not jerked or pulled hard or at least my tsetses have to be handled a certain way. I don’t like they hit hard or squeezed to tightly against each other.

I’m ready to explore other areas of play with an experienced guy or DOM. I would also like to experience a light/mild form of electro being applied to my balls, the shaft of my dick and maybe to the head some where down the track. Maybe even to my asshole.

I’m also keen to try with an experienced DOM Saline Play, which is inflating your balls with a salt watered solution by inserting a needle into the balls and allowing the solution to flow in. Depending on the amount, it can take up to about 48 hours for your body to “absorb” the fluid and your balls return to their normal state. As this is done with one drip needle and removed once completed.

 I started stretching my balls to make them low riders and hang doggie and being stretch by the hand of a partner. One of my goals once I get more ass play and butt hole become loose probably after extensive toy play or being fisted. I want to experience what it would be like for my DOM to stick my balls up my own ass. This is one of my motivations for doing ball stretching.

Note: I would not be into any other form of needle play with my balls or cock.

CP Corporal Punishment

I enjoy being spanked or paddled. My tools of choice are the hand to start, then using a wooden paddle such as a table tennis paddle, mini cricket bat, wooden spoon or hairbrush. The only other tool would be paddles made from leather. I like the way it makes my ass sting and swell up.

Generally during this I must be allowed to snort amyl in order to receive. Receiving a good paddling makes me even more hornier. I enjoy it on it’s own or it can be applied randomly throughout a session to stimulate me further when boundaries need to be pushed. It also makes feel that I’m being used, abused and dominated! I like it being applied when my DOM feels I’m not putting in my best effort or following his instructions. In this case I see it as discipline and that he is disappointed with my performance because on previous occasions I have done better.

As far as blows are concerned, I like them delivered at a steady rate and pace. What I mean by this is that blows are given by a count. Say a five count, where in his head he is counting in his head to 5. On 5 he delivers the blow striking “ONLY MY BUTT CHEEKS” and he alternate from cheek to cheek delivering the blows with equal force. I don’t mind if he start with light blows and works his way up. At the moment I enjoy and can endure blows of medium force. Once we experience this together you would understand what I consider medium. Then in the future you would realize it would be fine to start with medium blows. But they must remain evenly spread apart and with equal force, this way I can take a lot with having a break. I prefer being spanked/paddle through my y-fronts. Sometimes during the entire session and other times having them pulled down and have my bare ass paddled.

Note: At no time do I like or want my thighs paddled. I’m not into belts, straps, or canes. These when used cause a different type of pain that I don’t enjoy. I have never been flogged either, but one day I would like to try this but only on my butt and across my back, maybe.

When do I like my DOM to stop? In theory it is meant to be when he feels I have had enough. Yet in the beginning he has no way of knowing this! Black men ass don’t glow red like white butts do. They must endure a lot in most cases for this to happen.

All I can say is that I like the stinging sensation. I know when receiving my ass will begin to swell and may show signs welting. I can deal and handle and I know sometimes bruising occurs. I can handle and enjoy this but I don’t like being paddled [in the short term anyway] until the flesh is broken and starts bleeding. I like it so that it will be uncomfortable sitting down afterwards but not extremely painful. Position wise I like:

·        OTK – Over the knee

·        Doggie

·        Lying face down on a bed

·        Bent over a chair, couch, or spanking horse

Remembering I must be allowed to freely snort amyl to endure this. For this reason, I have never been placed in bondage during this. However, one of my biggest fantasies once with a regular casual or long term DOM, that we could explore this option. Then eventually allow him to administer it in his own way and terms, to experience his true dominance and control. It would be nice to be bounded and gagged one day and paddled to tears and only given amyl if he feels I should have it!

BONDAGE

There hasn’t been one man that I felt that I could trust enough to allow him to place me in bondage. Reason being I’m aware that you are completely vulnerable once you’re in it. This is one of those areas that I mention I don’t wish to do with a hookup. So until I’ve held more than 4-5 sessions with a guy, this simply isn’t going to happen. Then it would only start with mild forms – cuffs and worked up from there. This is not negotiable and when I’m ready and trust a guy I will tell him so. I’m only applying my own concept here. A submissive must do so because he is “willing” to do so, not be he is forced to or by way of violent acts.

WATERSPORTS

There are many forms of play connected with this scene. Even those I have 1-2 limits in this area due to lack of experience or training. I would be up for all of them! Here is how things presently stand:

·        Pissing my jocks or y-fronts or boxers

·        Pissing my jeans

·        Being pissed on and receiving “golden showers”

·        Being pissed up the ass

·        Diapers/Nappies

·        Yet when it comes to drinking piss, I only like “clear” piss at the moment

·        Enema’s – warm soapy, piss, beer, wine etc

·        Colonic irrigation

·        Other creative games involving funnels, rubber mask, etc

In the long term, I would also like being able to and with no one else in the beginning. Be able to drink my DOM yellow piss and learn to enjoy it. I believe this would naturally occur from having many sessions with him. I would be more into him by then and would want to. I know he would know how I feel about this, but and the same time after a certain period he would “now and then” give me yellow piss to remind me he is the DOM! Then I would become accustomed to it and beg him for more. He would know then my boundary has been expanded and he give what he wants! There is also one other thing I would like to try but I will cover this in the next topic.

SOUNDS

Once I learned about this practice I became naturally curious about this. To think guys would insert rods and other object into their pee hole was a big turn on. I have only experienced this as solo play. I started by insert lubed cotton tips, then golf tees for width and metal knitting needles for depth. I know for the best results, it should be done while your cock is in it’s flaccid state and it is not a direct route. All care must be use to avoid damage. For this reason I have only done it to myself and have let a few guys watch me do it and have done a few guys. Yet I havent met anyone with this experience to allow him to do the inserting. I know when I do I would be very nervous about this but look forward to it.

To purchase a proper set of sounds can be expensive when your on a tight budget and unless you have partners into this. It could be a waste of money. Once I did start solo play I realize this would be preparation for having a catheter inserted. Something I look forward to trying to incorporate with water sports.

FISTING

For obvious reasons it is clear that I have never been fisted before, even if I have fisted many. Having fisted guys and knowing all that this entails, I have formed this view. I want someone who I know and under stands where I am at in this form of play. That has the knowledge, skills and the patience to see me through to success. This isn’t going to happen with a hookup because they think your being coy and go right for the money! They get caught in the excitement and heat of the moment and don’t focus in or attempt to bond with the fistee.

For this reason alone, I decided that I don’t want multiple guys fisting me. I’m looking for one guy and one guy only to submit my ass to him in this way. It make no sense to me getting fisted eventually then have to deal with different guys who lack the knowledge of what my body can and can not handle or cope with.

Seeing how I’m seeking a DOM [not a master] for the long term, rather our relationship remains open or closed. He would be the only guy allowed to fist my ass. 1^st For appreciation in him for breaking me in because of the many sessions and trust it took to achieve that, but also because it would be showing him I’m committed to him. That this is an intimate thing that I don’t wish to share with any one. If our friendship is an open one and he got off using me in groups. He is there to oversea that no harm or damage is done to me and that others respect my limits that are only known to him. I would suck their cocks, let them fuck me or discipline me. Still, only my DOM would be allowed to fist me. Also I would have to agree with who would be allowed to participate in a 3'some or group play.

I have always said, “The guy who fist my ass will OWN it. He could share it out, permit guys to use and abuse me, yet he would make it perfectly clear that he alone is the only one allowed to fist my ass, Because for my DOM I want him to continue to bust my ass and open it to absolute capacity. Giving me his fist, double fist, foot or whatever he took pleasure in putting up my ass, because my ass belongs to him, for him alone to use and abuse in this way for his pleasure.

These are the things I have no problem discussing prior to us meeting and getting know each other. You may enjoy some of things or all of them. It was meant to give you a picture of what I’m about. I will say that there are even more things that I’m into or wish to explore, but they will remain private for the time being. All you need to know is that I’m very opened minded, nothing that you might be into could shock me or surprise me. The following belong in general categories that I will break down.

FETISHES

Ø      FORESKIN – I love the way the look, smell, taste and size doesn’t matter to me. [I’m not into tasting or eating dick cheese]

Ø      MANSCENT – I like lying up with and sniffing unwashed men. I like sweaty crotches, armpits, and if they are musty it’s big turn on. This means no deodorant, cologne or soap. Having said this, this is not a strict condition only a preference. I’m not talking rancid odors like how derelicts or the homeless smell. Nor am I talking about guys who wear runners without wearing socks and when they take their shoes off it clears the room! Damp moist socks and associated foot smells are okay. You don’t have to wear a fresh pair of jocks; I don’t mind grungy smelly jocks!

Ø      RIMMING – I really get off on rimming a guys ass especially if his hole is smooth. Yet being rimmed does absolutely nothing for me at all.

Ø      ROSEBUDS – While rimming I get off a beefy rosebud big time. I love suck on them.

ROLE PLAY

Ø      Master/Slave – I don’t take this serious it is only role-play; I’m not looking for a master.

Ø      Dog Training

Ø      Prison scenes

UNIFORMS/GEAR

I don’t have a uniform/gear fetish so to speak. I know many guys are turn on to this and some demand that you wear it! To me they are just clothes or a fashion statement and many on the scene identify with certain gear. I don’t dislike them and I’m more interested in the play than the costume! I regard guys obsessed with uniforms/gear are just into Gay Butch Drag! Yet I don’t mind the following:

ü      Leather/rubber

ü      Skin gear

ü      Army

ü      Track suits

ü      Sports kits

ü      Jockstraps, y-fronts, boxer shorts

TYPES/IMAGES

Ø      Skinheads

Ø      Punks

Ø      Alternatives

Ø      Scallies – Track suits

Ø      Blue Collar

YOU HAVE NO CHANCE AT ALL

• VANILLA SEX - that’s for foreplay and after play and nothing else to me.
•  PASSIVES SIZE QUEENS
• GUYS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO ARRANGE GROUPS FOR THEM!
• HEAVY FACIAL WRINKLES/AGE LINES
• FAT/OBESE/BEARS  [SMOOTH YOUNG CUBS OKAY]
  GYM BUNNIES WHO THINK THEY ARE ALL THAT
• NON MASCULINE MEN – CAN BE SLIGHTLY CAMP BUT NOT GIRLY
• PRETENTIOUS/MATERIALISTIC GUYS – I DON’T GIVE A STUFF ABOUT YOUR WALLET SIZE!
• STRAGGLY BEARDS -[WELL GROOMED OKAY] PREFER GOATEE'S. I dont like razor rash from guys wanting to rim me!

YOU WILL FIND THAT I’M DISCREET, EASY TO GET ON WITH, HAVE A BRAIN AND CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION, A SENSE OF HUMOUR AND AFFECTIONATE BUT NOT ROMANTIC! I PREFER TO CHILLOUT;GET PISSED/SMOKO/PNP AND THEN LET A NICE LONG RELAXED PIG SESSION UNFOLD..

I WILL NOT MEET ANY GUY ONLINE WITHOUT THEM PROVIDING A FACE PIC 1ST, SO DON’T ASK BECAUSE I DON’T DO BLIND DATES. YOU MUST PROVIDE BY EMAIL OR HAVE YOUR OWN HOMEPAGE…DO NOT REFER ME TO SITES LIKE “GAYDAR” OR GAY.COM. IN MOST CASES THOSE ARE OLD PICS AND NOT UP TO DATE. IM NOT INTERESTED IN VIEWING COCK/ASS SHOTS WITHOUT A FACE PIC. AND DON’T SEND ME PICS THAT ARE 2-3 OR MORE YEARS OLD.

DON'T USE FOR CYBERING I'M DONT HAVE TIME TO WASTE WITH THAT BULL! IF YOUR NOT SERIOUSLY WANTING TO HOLD A INSPECTION DONT CONTACT ME PLAYING SILLY GAMES!!!

You can contact me on the following emails and both have messengers so that we can chat and discuss things further...Im all for that, because unless you tell me more about yourself I wont be pressured into meeting you. Until I start training to serve you, dont expect me to call you Sir! You will be given respect once you earn it and if and when I step out of line I expect to be disciplined.

blackguy4m2m@hotmail.com

ozblackman@yahoo.com.au

aussiedogg@punkass.com  [no messenger just email]

mobile: 0405 209 724  This number is only provided to show Im geniune. It is not for phone sex or to be used simply because your horny after a hookup. Talking about sex is one thing cybering is another. If you dont know the difference I do!

Im geniune and pretty easy to get on with. I am aggressive by nature but I dont have a attitude if thats what is coming accross here. What you have read is a man who knows exactly what he wants. That being a partner in all things besides sex...during sex I expect to take the submissive position and do as Im told so that my trainer and owner can use abuse me for his pleasure. Im not interested in serving a master at this point. I require a DOM to train,own and put me in my place by sexually controlling me 1st. Then together we both decide if he should take on a role as Master and me his Slave after a bond of respect and trusted is forged.This is what Im after and I won't settle for 2nd best or anything less.

I WAS BORN AND CREATED TO SERVE....WHO I AM TO SERVE REMAINS TO BE SEEN.