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Mums-House Ireland, was founded in 2005 , by Us the Falsely Accused  we formed this none -goverment Voluntsary orgonisation independent of Local Authority , Social Services Departments .

Mums-House Ireland provides a Website containing information and advice for familys with children experierncing frustration in working with Social Services , in Ireland we associate our selves and work in conjunction with F.A.S.S.I.T.  UK and other grounps and Orgonisations along with them , however  in Ireland familys are fearful of Social Services , who remove children from loving familys and place them in care on an " Abuse Excuse " or with individuals who abuse the Irish Child Welfare System for their own self gains .

There is an increasing opinion that many FALSE and MALICIOUS ALLEGATIONS OF CHILD ABUSE are made against innocent people. This  has devastating consaquences for those FALSELY ACCUSED, and support groups have been established { This is what MUMS-HOUSE-IRELAND is all about } Supporting the Falsely accused with Referance Information, Mums- House-Irelnad has been established to highlight the cases of false allegations and to seek JUSTICE for those accused .

So, how many allegations are false or malicious? This is not an easy question to answer: some professionals clame they are extreamly rare, others maintain they have become a serious problem { Please visit Fassit } In truth , no one knowes how many false allegations are actually made. First of all, there are problems in defining what is meant by¬ false or Malicious ¬. Some define `false allegations` as all those allegations that are not proven or are found to be untrue; others limit the term to refer to deliberate fabrications.

There is no douth that deliberate fabrication of child abuse do occur and for a variety of reasons, including for FINANCIAL GAIN and sometimes where two parents are DISPUTING CUSTODY of access to a Child. However, we must also remember that it is very difficult thing to prove. The SAVI report (2000 ) indicated that while 20 % of women and 16% of men experienced child sexual abuse, 47 % of them had never told anyone about the abuse. It therefore seems reasonable to surmise that deliberate false allegations by children are extreamely rare .However children can be GROOMED INTO CRIME some sexual . 

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 If my child is abused, I am a failure as a parent 

When a family discovers that a child has been or is being abused, it`s extremely traumatic-not just for the child, but also for the child`s parents, person acting in local parenting, and siblings. Alongside the upset and concern parents or persona acting in local parenting fell for their child, they will often also be feeling guilty and responcible for what has happened. Sometimes they feel that they have let their child down, that they should have done more to protect him/her  { Deed of Seperation for example } or that they should have realused what was happening. Sometimes these feelings of guilt and responsibility make it difficult for us to believe what our child is telling us or cause us to blame our child for what has happened.

While these feelings and reactions are normal, they are not helpful. It is very important to remember that responsibility for abuse rest firmly and solely with the abuser. If we take responsibility upon ourselves, blame our child or refuse to believe our child, it not only helps the abuser to abrogate responsibility, but also makes it more difficult for our child, and for us, to overcome the impact of the abuse.

Emotional abuse and neglect are not as serious as the other forms of abuse

We here little about emotional abuse and neglect, so we sometimes think that this type of abuse.In fact, emotional abuse and neglect can be more difficult to identify and more difficult to prevent. As a result , this type of abuse can go undetected for a far longer time, causing significant emotional and physical damage to the child. Chronic neglect can result in serioux psysical damage and sometimes death; emotional abuse not only causes immense psychological damage but can make children susceptible to other forms of abuse as well. There is still a great deal we need to larn about these forems of abuse .

Myths about sexual abuse

Stranger/dange

Most media coverage of child  sexual abuse focuses on abuse of children by strangers. We often read in the papers distressing stories about children being abducted by men in vans or been abused by men in public parks. { Newspapers also don`t refuse Ink also } As a society, we we have traditionaly delat with child sexual abuse by warning our children about strangers, i.e `never take a lift or sweets from a stranger, `if you see men hanging around, never talk to them`, etc, In many ways, viewing child sexual abuse as something that is perpetrated by strangers is the only way that we can make sence of it.The ideathat a person who knowes our child or is in a positation of trust might hurt or abus him/her is extreamly difficult for us to confrunt and accept i.e. { Oppertunity , Desire and Accessability } Nevertheless, the facts clearly tell us that most child sexual abuse is committed by peopel who  are knowen to the victim & who are in positions of trust . This is hard for us to accept, but it is an important fact for us to face up to so that we can protect our children adequately.

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