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I created my marriage with a different process. I want to share this with you.
It was about 11 or 12 years ago and I knew about visualizing and positive thinking and really wanted to get married.
So I visualized the day of my wedding. I knew you are not supposed to think of a particular person and there was no one in my life to think of anyway so to make it easier, I saw myself at the Standesamt (something like a registry office, where you can get married in Germany if you are not getting married in Church, but I don't know how you would call it here in the US)..... uhm, anyway....... looking out of a window as we were waiting for the registrar to let us in the room. Anyway, I see myself looking out of the window, my husband in the background not really playing a role in my visualization and I see a little pond with ducks swimming around.
I don't know why, but concentrating on the ducks made it easier for me to vizualize the scene without having any conflict or questions about how I would feel or who else would be there and if that is realistic and what about that mysterious husband......
Well anyway, to make this short, I know (because I know myself) I did not do this very often. Maybe 3 or 4 times and then forgot about all of this.
A few months later I met my husband and about a year later I got married and when we approached the Standesamt in Denmark (where we got married) right next to the building is the pond and the ducks. I nearly fainted. I could not believe it. There was no way of me knowing this when I picked that place in Denmark because it was most convenient, not because there were ducks. I had no clue about the ducks until I saw them that morning. I made my husband take pictures of it and he needless to say was a little confused why they were so important to me. I felt too embarrassed to talk about it at the time.
By the way, my husband and I are having our 10th anniversary in about a month.
Andrea C.
I discovered I was able to manifest things in my reality about three years ago, although looking back I see that this has happened my whole life! Very bizarre and wonderful things have happened to me, both good and bad and all on my own doing!
My most wonderful creations have happened between my boyfriend and I. I met him almost 2 1/2 years ago and he is the most unique and wonderful man I have ever known. I've created so many fun and amazing things between us and I know now the best is coming.
One of the greatest events that I created happened a year ago. My boyfriend and I usually took short trips due to the fact that we both have custody of our own children. He has two and I have two from previous marriages. Getting time alone isn't easy sometimes. I wished and wished for time alone and finally left it up to the Universe. I finally drew my "energy circle" on the floor, and threw into it the ideas I had. I had wanted to ride on his Harley with him, never had been on it yet. I also wanted more than just a weekend alone, but rather four to five days. I wanted to go away further than a few hours from home, but yet not too far from our kids. As a last request I asked for it to be an adventure, but not a bad one!
Well, in two weeks, my boyfriend emailed me three possibilities, all about five hours from home. One was a hotel in a beautiful town right on the lake and it just happened to be for the bargain price of 200 dollars for four nights and five days!!!!!!!!!
To add to my absolute excitement, he had decided to take the Harley and trailer it up with his 4x4 truck so we could ride! I was so stunned I couldn't believe it. I had never even mentioned taking the motorcycle, or staying for more than two days! The best part was that I got my adventure too.
The hotel was older, and we stayed on the third floor with a beautiful view of the bridge in town. It was kind of creepy, bad lighting, and we were the only ones on our end of the floor. The bed was too hard, there were a few spiders dangling from the ceiling (which my Knight in Shining Armor took care of), the pool wasn't useable, and we had to get our own towels from the desk downstairs.
We dubbed it affectionately "The Waverly" after a creepy old hospital we had watched a special about on the television. Sounds like a lousy deal but I had the time of my life. We rode the Harley around the lake, rode bicycles around town, sat by the lake together and spent the whole time getting to know each other all over again.
Happy Creating
Trina
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