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The Purposes of
Life's Events & Experiences
excerpts from Conversations

Neale Donald Walsh


All events, all experiences, have as their purpose the creating of opportunity. Events and experiences are Opportunities. Nothing more, nothing less. It would be a mistake to judge them as “works of the devil,” “punishments from God,” “rewards from Heaven,” or anything in between. They are simply Events and Experiences—things that happen. It is what we think of them, do about them, be in response to them, that gives them meaning. Events and experiences are opportunities drawn to you—created by you individually or collectively, through consciousness. Consciousness creates experi­ence. You are attempting to raise your consciousness. You have drawn these opportunities to you in order that you might use them as tools in the creation and expe­riencing of Who You Are. Who You Are is a being of higher consciousness than you are now exhibiting.

Because it is My Will that you should know, and experience, Who You Are, I allow you to draw to yourself whatever event or experience you choose to create in order to do that. Other Players in the Universal Game join you from time to time—either as Brief Encounters, Peripheral Participants, Temporary Teammates, Long-Term Inter-actors, Relatives and Family, Dearly Loved Ones, or Life Path Partners. These souls are drawn to you by you. You are drawn to them by them. It is a mutually creative experience, expressing the choices and desires of both.

No one comes to you by accident.
There is no such thing as coincidence.
Nothing occurs at random.
Life is not a product of chance.
Events, like people, are drawn to you,
by you, for your own purposes.

Larger planetary experiences and developments are the result of group consciousness. They are drawn to your group as a whole as a result of the choices and desires of the group as a whole.

The Term “Group Consciousness”?Group consciousness is something that is not widely understood—yet it is extremely powerful and can, if you are not careful, often overcome individual con­sciousness. You must always, therefore, endeavor to create group consciousness wherever you go, and with whatever you do, if you wish your larger life experience on the planet to be harmonious. If you are in a group whose consciousness does not reflect your own, and you are unable at this time to effectively alter the group consciousness, it is wise to leave the group, or the group could lead you. It will go where it wants to go, regardless of where you want to go.

it is no secret, it never was...Read the section below I have included on Bob Doyle. It is a great read, and explains in great detail, how the Laws Of The Universe, quantum physics, and spirituality plays a part in this vibration, and conversation!

It has always been around, it has always been working, and it has been around forever...one of my first "greats" my mentor, Dale Carnegie, had lived and taught this "secret to all successes," many years ago..

this, so called secret, the law of attraction, universal laws, and all  of the components, messages, and teachings have all come from a few of our great leaders of the world. And some of the greatest successful people around...Carnegie was one of the first teachers/leaders, of the program of human relations, and personal developement through the writings of his books, and the courses of which he taught.

This is really not so "new" it is a message conveyed by many, in various methods and ways of teaching it... the message and teachings, have become a huge paridigm shift in awareness of the laws of the universe and quantum thinking/reality. I am a firm believer, that we need to hear these messages as often, as in as many different forms available, for deeper understanding of this miraculous new "awareness" brought forth by the creators of the block buster "the secret"...that is my personal opinion, and experience, which I so gratefully have had the experience with the Dale Carnegie books and programs!

this is a small part of a chapter from my current mentor, Bob Doyle, who has provided me with more, insite into the law of attraction, public relations, and self developement...Bob's readings are the most clear, and accurate, easy to read and understand than any other book or program which delves into this area of understanding how our thoughts, become, our relatities...our the universe works...thank you Bob for sharing this great info, and for having me learn and share this very accurate and truthful, information!

Life is all about attraction and resistance. We experience what we attract through our vibration, and we repel that which we resist.

The only thing that stands between where we are now, and where we desire to be is resistance.

Taking this process too seriously will backfire almost every time, and I will get into why as we go through the process.

Remember that the Universe is always responding to your vibration. You are always in a state of “asking”. Therefore, if you approach this process with too much seriousness, then the vibration you are putting out there will simply serve to attract more serious situations.

If you consider this process work, and FEEL like it is work, then you shall continue to attract situations that will make the “hard work” of this a reality.

However, when you approach this material with lightness, and with detachment to a timetable for results, you actually speed up the process greatly, because you’re eliminating a great deal of resistance, as we’ll discuss in detail shortly.

There is a handful of basic steps to the process. This process is repeated in various ways by different “Law of Attraction” authors, but the essence is always the same.

The process can be broken down into just a few steps, which follow. While they are basically the same steps everyone else gives you, I have provided the secret super-weapon in the section on Letting Go that many do NOT give you, simply because they are not familiar with it –yet.

And by the way, as you are starting out in all this, you have to know that you cannot “skip steps.” You have to do them all.

With practice, the steps will flow much more naturally from one to the other and it will not have to seem like such a “process.” However, you are learning something new and unlearning years of false information. Take as long as you need. You Deserve It!

Designing Your Life How to ask for exactly what you want…and nothing less!

The most important thing you can learn is that “asking” for what you want is much less about actually making a verbal or written request of the Universe, and more about BEING that the request is already fulfilled. Many times, when you are asking for something, you are in a vibrational space of “not having it” – which, of course, is why you’re making the request in the first place!

The key is to notice what you want, and then to “be” that you already have it. THIS is what shifts your vibration into a state that will actually attract what you’re asking for.

This may seem strange, but it is, actually, how your current experience of reality is working.

Look around you right now. Everything about your reality is something you’re attracting based on your vibration. However, most of it is being attracted to you by default. You’re not consciously doing anything to attract it, but you’re attracting it all the same. You’re on autopilot.

Your reality, right now, is the result of all of your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that you have based on your experiences up to this point. You didn’t consciously attract your current reality, because you had no idea that you could—you just went with the flow.

You listened to parents and integrated their beliefs. You listened to teachers an integrated their beliefs. All your life, you’ve been absorbing the thoughts, feelings, opinions, and beliefs of others, and it has shaped your belief system.

Your belief system has a powerful effect over your feelings, thus what you are vibrating, and therefore, what you can attract. You’re beliefs truly DO impact what is possible for you, but beliefs are nothing more than a thought process you have over and over again…and they can be changed. When your belief system changes, your feelings about what’s possible begin to change.

This, in turn, changes your vibrational frequency, and allows different possibilities for your life. This section is about beginning to make shifts in your predominant vibration with regard to what is possible for you in your life, not just in the area of wealth, but any and all areas you’d like to see change in some way.

First, however, you have to take responsibility for attracting what you have. You don’t have to like it, you don’t have to be proud of it, but you do need to understand that, like it or not, you are in vibrational resonance with your experience of reality, or it would be absolutely impossible for you to be experiencing it.

You can choose to resist what I’m saying. You can point to countless world events and deny any responsibility for having them be a part of your life. Eventually, however, you’re going to have to accept that on some vibrational level, you ALLOWED these events into your life.

Again, it does NOT mean that you wanted them. It does not mean that you consciously asked for how to eliminate any and all energetic resistance affecting your vibration such that you seem unable to attain your desires.

Actually, “How to Do It”, is something of a misnomer in terms of what you’re going to learn in this chapter. What you really need to learn is how to BE it.

The problem with most “self-help” courses is that they give you a list of techniques and processes—things to do. Sometimes, these processes can do the allimportant work of shifting your vibration into resonance with what you desire. However, more often, a person who is “doing” the processes maintains the vibration of “doing the processes”.

The Law of Attraction is very precise. It responds to exactly what you are vibrating. It does not interpret.

If your vibration is that you are doing a program in search of answers, then you will attract MORE “doing a program in search of answers.”

Books and programs should instead teach you how to be FREE of books and programs, and how to BE that you are wealthy, healthy, and whatever else you want to be, because, unless you are in the vibrational space of being wealthy, you cannot attract wealth.

That is what this section is about. Remember also that we live in a completely Infinite Universe.

The reason we are experiencing our present reality is because it is the one with which we are currently in vibrational alignment, but ALL realities that you can imagine exist.

You and your Ego are not as smart as the Universe. You will speed things up greatly if you will just step out of the way.

So how do you “ask” most effectively? This is actually fully covered in the next section, which is “Design Your Life,” and the really good news is that “asking” correctly is intrinsically easy and extremely fun. In fact, if it is not, you are asking incorrectly!

The other good news is that there are many ways to ask correctly, and they all have one thing in common. They all bring the same net result, which is the raising of a positive vibration around your desires.

All the various methods have another thing in common. One of the first steps in all of them is knowing what you want, and understanding that it is not money is an important first step and will save you a great deal of time.

What will you do or buy with the money when you get it? How will you feel when you have those things? This is where to have your attention. It is a lot more fun to think about boating on the lake than thinking about how you are going to finance the boat, right? It is more enjoyable to think about cooking a great meal in your dream kitchen than trying to figure out what second job is going to pay for it. Get the picture? Good…because getting the “picture” is an integral part of the first step of the “creation” process.

Now it is time to find out what that process is…

around us, called the Universe. We are literally like radio tuners, and we “pick up” frequencies that vibrate within the range to which we are tuned!

Your energetic vibrations act like magnets to similar energetic vibrations. If this is so, then what controls our vibrations? How do we “tune the dial” so to speak to match what we want?

It is your thoughts and emotions that dictate what you are vibrating, and thus, what you are magnetizing.

Here’s an example you can probably relate to:

Have you ever had days that started bad and got worse? It is very simply explained by the Law of Attraction. Something happens, which you choose to interpret as “bad,” which causes you to take on a negative emotion. This activates a magnet that will attract more of what will induce that emotion. So you burn your breakfast, hit every red light, get cut off in traffic, fight with your spouse…it just goes on and on. And it is in no way a coincidence. It is what you have attracted.

The reality is, you had a choice when that first “bad” thing went wrong to either have a totally different interpretation of the event or to find something else on which to put your attention…something that brings you Joy! Once you do that, the Law of Attraction will instantly begin to magnetize things that will perpetuate and build on that positive emotion.

Good things will start to happen, and, to the extent that you can amplify the joy you are feeling, things will only get better and better, rather than worse and worse. It is Law.

You see, the Law of Attraction does not “care”!

There is no “good and bad” to The Law. Those are strictly our personal judgments, based on our core beliefs.

The Law of Attraction simply responds perfectly to what you vibrate. The trouble is that, as a society, we have learned to vibrate negatively. Our idea of “reality” is that life is hard and that you must work hard for the things you want. We have been taught that sometimes having good relationships means compromising who we really are to “make it work.”

To the extent that we adopt and integrate those beliefs, they will be absolutely true for us.

They become true, because all of our “evidence” will support these beliefs. Why?

Because the Law of Attraction will bring you more and more situations that are in vibrational alignment with your thoughts, beliefs, and most of all, your feelings.

You can see evidence of the Law of Attraction at work in your life everywhere you look.

In fact, everything you see is there as a result of you attracting it into your experience—Energy attracting like Energy.

This is actually another step of the process, but, before we get there, we have to know precisely what we are letting go of! And that means making your list (not in your head, but on paper) of what you want.

Now, how hard is it to take out a pencil and paper and write down a list of things you truly desire? Well, apparently it is pretty hard for some people, because they just do not do it. It is the classic “self-improvement” approach: Read a book, expect miracles.

It usually does not work that way, BUT, the way it does work is not hard! This process is really a great deal of fun, once you actually start! It is like anything else, though. Starting seems to be the hardest part.

to put it all in yet another way, relating this important information, continue your read...

 

You may have heard the saying “you are what you eat”, meaning if you eat lean healthy foods you will be lean and healthy or if you eat fat laden foods you will be fat. Well, the same principle applies to your thoughts. If you regularly think positive thoughts of happiness and abundance, you will experience a life filled with happiness and abundance. The same thing goes for those who think negative thoughts of lack and despair. They will subsequently create an unhappy life for themselves. It sounds too simple to be true but it most definitely is.

This is not newinformation I have just recently discovered. We live in a thought based universe and civilizations have created their reality based on their thoughts since the beginning of time.

Albert Einstein knew this and wrote extensively on the topic.

I love Albert! Did you know that he was autistic. Albert rarely talked, until around 8 years of age.

 

Everything in the universe travels in circles, from the electrons spinning around the nucleus of an atom to a human thought. Every thought you think, whether you are aware of it or not, is sent as a pulse or vibration out into the universe gaining energy and returning to you. If you are a generally happy and positive person, your own personal vibration level will be relatively high and you will naturally emit positive thoughts or vibrations out into the universe and they will return to you more positive and happy experiences.

When you get caught in the rut of thinking negatively or spending a lot of time thinking about your problems, you are effectively creating more of the same.

Although it may seem necessary to think about your problems in order to solve them, this is not the case. The more you think about your problems, the more problems you create in your life.

Therefore, the best solution to overcoming your problems is to give them no thought at all. In fact, to overcome your problems in the shortest possible time, your best plan of attack would be to focus your thoughts on exactly the life you do want.

This can be difficult for some people who have been caught up in a negative mindset for some time so I suggest to you to write down on paper the things you would like in your life.

Some examples would be. If you currently have no partner and this makes you feel miserable, write down on paper the traits of your ideal partner, this doesn’t need to be too specific, just some general traits you would prefer and then 2 or 3 times a day for about 10 minutes, spend some time thinking about being with that ideal partner. It’s not necessary to have a clear picture in you mind of what they look like, it’s more about concentrating on your happy feelings when you are with this ideal person, the more positive and happy your feelings are, the quicker you will see results.

The same goes for anyone who is bothered by a lack of money. As difficult as it may be to not think about your financial problems, understand that by the universals laws that govern the entire universe, it is not possible to solve your problems by worrying about them. The law of attraction states that what you think about will be attracted to you and this goes for everything you think about whether it be good or bad. If you are deep in debt you need to stop thinking about, thinking about how you can fix it will not solve the problem. You need to refocus your thoughts on exactly the opposite and really feel what it would be like to be prosperous and do this 2-3 times a day for about 10 minutes when you get a chance to relax. Perhaps before and after work and in your lunch break in a quiet place if possible.

When you spend some quiet time each day deliberately not thinking about your problems and instead focusing your thoughts with as much good feeling as possible, on what it is you want or will make you happy, you begin to break the constant cycle of sending negative thoughts out into the universe and returning with more negative experiences in your life. These short 10 minute bursts of positive energy bring back to you new positive ideas and opportunities at a later date for you to act on and help you improve the circumstances of your life.

So don’t worry that these short periods of positive thinking will have no bearing on your life when you seem entrenched in worrying most of the time. I have been there, worrying about my problems seemingly all the time, but it was facing the problems that lead me to look for a way out and that put me on the spiritual path which lead me out of the darkness and into the light. These short periods of positive thinking and creative visualization caused some positive energy to be sent back to me and as I noticed the opportunities arise I took action and in no time at all my life started to improve. At first it seemed like just a coincidence when I started to spend time feeling good and then I noticed some constructive opportunities come my way but there are no coincidences in life, there is only what you make yourself. You create your own opportunities from your habitual thinking and those thoughts create your reality.

In essence, you can have the life you want, by just simply thinking about it. The key is to  monitor your thoughts  and catch yourself when you begin to think negatively and replace those thoughts with positive thoughts. Then you can confidently expect to see the rewards from your happy thinking as they manifest in your happy life.

 

The Purposes of
Life's Events & Experiences

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