SOUL-MATES

Do you believe you’ve found your soul-mate?   How do you know if your partner is your soul-mate?  This process takes time.  Quality time spent together getting to know your significant other.  The longer you are in love with your soul-mate; the chances are higher that you have found your soul-mate. Better communication skills will emerge and you both will share more experiences resulting in more similarities. Soul-mates are two people who are very compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, and sensitivity. 

If you can merely hold each other in silence, saying completely nothing, and still the pain goes away, then you have found your soul-mate.  He or she senses your thoughts and feelings without either of you sharing them, and shares a love with you that empty platitudes and clichés can never capture.

The simple thought of your soul-mate, the knowledge that he or she is present in your life, and loves you will be enough to take away the pain.  You will gain strength from knowing he or she is close by and together you are united as a couple.  When you find your soul-mate, you don’t even need to hear their voice or feel their caress in order to find comfort.  Even if you are separated by thousands of miles, the pain goes away simply because you know your partner loves and cares about you.  Soul-mate relationships have incredible soothing powers; they are heart warming and possess healing qualities.

You know you have found your soul-mate when everything that you experience you want to share with them.  When you see something beautiful, like a sunrise or a sunset, do you miss them and wish they could share this moment with you?  When something good happens, do you immediately want to tell them about it?  When you see him or her smile, or hear him or her laugh does that make you happy?  Do you feel like you have a deep connection that you cannot put into words?  If your answers to these questions are yes, then you have found your soul-mate.

You will want to share every part of yourself with your soul-mate.  All of a sudden, living on your own will seem strange.  Your soul-mate completes you and without them you feel incomplete.  A soul-mate complements you in the deepest way.  What you once lacked, he or she adds to your life.  Your soul-mate improves you as a person, and inspires you to achieve life-time goals and work towards both of your dreams.

A soul-mate is not a perfect partner; a soul-mate is someone who is perfect for you. When you find your soul-mate you will see his or her faults.  Love is not blind.  You will be aware that your soul-mate lacks so much in so many areas of life, but that won’t matter at all.  You know that you need each other, that you belong together, and that as a couple you will overcome all flaws and obstacles. 

Copyright 2005, Janelle Coulton

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