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Christian Ex-Gay Ministry

Internetfilter






Lies: Römer 6:12-13


Internetfilter (damit man erst gar nicht auf die Idee kommt, pornographische Seiten anzuklicken):

ICRA Filter

www.smartcomparisons.com

www.internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com

www.internetfilters.net

www.afafilter.com

www.pkfamily.com

Bsafe Online: Internet filter

www.hedgebuilders.com
http://www.safe-t.net - An internet provider that screens out pornographic web sites.
http://www.besafe.com - A sreening sytem for blocking pornography on your computer


 




Safe Eyes Internet Control
Review of product by TfT member









Filtered Internet and Email

Integrity Online

Their products now include:

  • Filtered DSL internet service and as well as the traditional dial-up access, including web filtering and spam-virus email filtering integrated right into the network
  • The Everywhere Filter for cable and DSL users -  clean and safe high-speed experience.
  • Free Internet Accountability software that tracks websites visited from a specific computer. It then regularly sends a report of potentially inappropriate sites accessed by this computer to an accountability email address you designate.

 

Safe Eyes: 

Safe Eyes 2005 includes these features:

  • All the protection needed against undesirable material on the Internet
  • Option to ban or allow access to certain types of websites
  • Integrated popup blocker automatically closes annoying ads that appear when you visit websites.
  • Integrated Accountability options:  Enables monitoring of  the websites that a user visits and sharing this information with a Friend. Best of all, Safe Eyes 2005 is the only Internet control software that will call you on the telephone when access to undesirable material is detected. 
  • Free trial period

 




How Can You Keep Your Children Safe?

  1. Keep the Computer in a PUBLIC area of your home.
  2. Install Accountability/Filtering Software such as SafeEyes, Covenant Eyes or others.
  3. Do not allow unmonitored access to the computer without parental supervision.
  4. Check your computer's history often.
  5. Educate your children about the dangers of the Internet.

Tell Your Children...

  • NEVER respond to messages that have bad words or seem scary or just weird; and to always let you know immeadiately if they find something is threatening, vulgar or innappropriate on the Internet.
  • NEVER give out their name, address, telephone number, password, school name, parent's name or ANY other personal information.
  • NEVER send a picture of themselves to anyone without permission.
  • NEVER agree to meet face to face with someone they have met online.
  • NEVER enter an area that charges for services without asking permission.

Some Statistics that You Should Know

  • 30 million children younger than 18 use the Internet.
  • 30% of parents allow their teenagers to use the computer in private areas of the home such as a bedroom.
  • 8 years old is the average age that a child is first exposed to Internet pornography.
  • Children and Teens ages 12 to 17 years old are among the largest consumers of Internet pornography.
  • 90% of children 8 to 16 years old have seen porn online (most while doing homework.)
  • 1 in 5 children online are sexually solicited, usually in chatrooms and places like MySpace.
  • 95% of parents cannot identify common chatroom lingo.
  • Handheld technology, such as Video iPods and cellphones are becoming a common means of receiving pornographic material.








Other helpful tools

Content Purity Scanner & Removal Tool

From their website:  "ContentPurity.com provides parental controls software to detect, remove and clean up objectionable Content off your PC.  You can check if your spouse or children visit objectionable sites on the internet with our free parental control tool, Content Scanner .  Our content filtering tool, Child Web Guardian allows you to block access to objectionable sites.   It is the most effective content filtering product on the market today. "



Covenant Eyes

https://secure.cvnt.net/signup/

Covenant Eyes is software that installs on your PC that logs your web surfing, stores the data on our servers, and generates reports that are sent to the accountability partners you choose.




Covenant Eyes Accountability Tracking 

The program works with all browsers and all internet connections and has these additional features:

  • Option to selectively block protocols, like file-sharing or newsgroup programs
  • Can be configured to work with wireless networks or "hotspots"
  • Easy to use configuration
  • Friendly, free technical support
  • May be used on unlimited number of computers at no additional charge
  • Tampering notification - partners are notified when program is tampered with; system also detects when "System Restore" function as been used in windows to circumvent accountability
  • Many additional features (see website by clicking on logo ad)

  

Free Pop-up Stopper from Panicware: We've found this to be an effective, free pop-up / pop-under blocking program.  Since you never know what the content of pop-up Ads might be (porn, dating services, gambling, etc.), it makes sense to protect you and your family by eliminating the ads. 

Visit FilterReview.com for reviews on filters and filtered service providers.  (provided by the National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families)



Covenant Eyes protects your family by monitoring Internet use and sending reports to you or to any accountability partners you choose.


Safe Eyes 2005 Internet Control Software Only $49.95 with no monthly or yearly subscription fee! Provides 1 year of protection.



www.recoverygap.com

The Recovery Gap is a blog dedicated to better understanding sexual addiction.





A Safe Internet Alternative for Your Family...  Millions of pornographic websites are open to everyone ... 80% of e-mail is spam or worse! Are you paying for Internet service that helps sponsor destructive and immoral behavior? For information on an Internet service provider designed to protect the entire family, go to AFO.net.




Parents See Internet as Greatest Media Risk


NEW!

Internetfilter: BSecure

Article by Tim Wilkins

Safe Web Surfing

"It appears the sin of choice among Christians today is Internet pornography," writes James T. Draper Jr., president of LifeWay Christian Resources.

To be sure, avoiding temptation is far superior to overcoming temptation. The apostle Paul wrote, It is God's will that you should ... avoid sexual immorality. Avoiding web porn lessens the likelihood of having to resist it.

Here are ten guidelines for safely surfing the Net.

1 Disconnect from the Internet! Also known as a "modemectomy," this option is often met with incredulity — "That's preposterous!"

Is it? Jesus said if your hand, foot, or eye causes you to sin, get rid of it! Hyperbole made His point.

A mother called me expressing her and her husband's distress on learning their eighteen-year-old son was viewing gay porn online. I invited all three to my office. After some conversation, I excused the parents so Ted and I could talk. Ted admitted his struggle with homosexuality and gay porn. When his parents returned I suggested, among other things, the family disconnect from the Internet. Immediately the father appeared agitated, "That's impossible, my work depends on it." After more conversation, they left. I was not surprised to later learn from Ted that the father's agitation stemmed from his web porn use also; the father's secret was no secret to Ted. "Like father, like son!" Can't disconnect? Try fasting thirty to ninety days.

2 Ask a friend for accountability! Confide your struggle with a prayer partner; such relationships are precisely what web porn hinders. See www.covenanteyes.net which e-mails questionable web sites you've visited to your accountability partner.

3 Use a filtering system or a clean Internet provider. Some are listed here:

One system, Watchdog, takes random shots of what's on your monitor and records text of all program usage; it searches and displays a list of all graphics, even if someone has tried to hide them. Your accountability partner can check where you've been at any time. A director of a ministry to sex addicts allows his pastor, board, and family to check on him. Visit Watchdog at www.charlesriver.com/WD.html.

4 Move the computer to a high traffic area. Viewing porn diminishes when the computer sits in the family room. Avoid any room where doors can be closed.

5 Let teens surf only under adult supervision. Even if the computer sits in a high traffic area, limit its use to times when mom or dad is nearby.

6 Get what you need and get off the web! Browsing can be a mistake! When my wife goes "shopping," I know she will return with only the item(s) she is shopping for; but when she says, "Honey, I'm going to the mall to browse," she will undoubtedly return with a half dozen shopping bags.

7 Stay off the web at night when fatigue makes you vulnerable to temptation. A tired body is a tempted body! Insomniacs beware: Counting sheep prevails over surfing the web.

8 Fortify your computer and work space. Be creative! Place Scripture on your screen saver pertaining to sexual temptation. Turn away my eyes from beholding vanity, the Bible says. Use a family photo or a picture of your wife as a reminder of your wedding vows.

To unblock his computer, one man must type his password, "I will follow Christ." Another user plays Christian music while surfing — an audible reminder to avoid porn.

9 Randomly or regularly check e-mail transmissions and web history. One family randomly checks their children's sent and received e-mails. A church has a different staff person check the history of all computers each month.

Keeping the history is a must. Such a measure, for example, might have saved one church staff member from falling into sin and losing his job. A pastor called me needing help; when a support staff person was out sick, another staff member retrieved a needed file from the sick staffer's computer. He found more than the needed file; porn had been downloaded from the Internet.

Visit these sites for help with web porn:

10 Finally, don't ask, "How much can I get away with and not be caught?" The prudent man knows that the true mark of a Christian is measured in what he would do if he knew he would never be found out!

More Links


 
Lebenshilfe-net.ch: Internet-Sexsucht
 
 
 

Links International

Accountability: http://www.x3watch.com/

 

Saint Mary Magdalene de Pazzi

Model of true love and Patron saint of those who suffer from sexual temptations: http://www.trueknights.org/Newsletter/EletterV3I9-Saint.html


Resources

CitizenLink.com: Filtered Web Access on Flights