The majority of women ease into labor; a rare few will jump into hard labor from the very beginning.
When you realize that you are in the early stages of labor:
** You need to call me when: contractions have gotten steady at 5 minutes apart, are lasting a minute and are demanding your attention when they happen.
Ideas to help you stay comfortable as labor progresses:
CONTACT INFO:
Tricia Spears Home: 419-752-5345 Cell: 419-681-6765
Leave messages at each number. If I do not return your call within 10 mins, please call:
Becky Frye Home: 740-397-9128 Cell: 740-501-4476
Or Patty Gray Home: 937-982-3135 Cell: 937-243-7597
As the body adjusts to accommodate the last few centimeters of dilation, just before you begin pushing, the hormone levels are so high that you will see undeniable physical signs. Observation of these signs alert you to the fact that you are in transition.
Transition is generally the shortest part of labor, lasting 15 minutes to half an hour on average. However, this is also the most intense part of labor for many women. Some women find that being reminded that they are in transition increases their ability to handle the intensity.
The major emotional marker for this stage is giving up. It is in this part of labor that most women ask for medication. This is unfortunate since the shortness of this stage of labor may cause the mother to be pushing before she has received any medical pain relief. When physical signs indicate transition, it may be best to hold out, handling the contractions as best as possible.
Physical signs of transition include shaking or trembling which may resemble shivering or could be stronger. Nausea and vomiting are also common signs. In addition to these, some women will feel hot and cold flashes or have cold sweats. Other women may begin burping or hiccupping as the body prepares.
Another physical sign is the inability to relax or be comfortable. A woman who was handling labor well may suddenly find that she has no idea what to do and nothing is comfortable any more. At this point, it is the job of her coach or labor partner to assist her into various positions in an attempt to find the one that will keep her most comfortable.
During transition, contractions will be long and close. They may be 90 seconds long and two minutes apart, which gives you a 30 second rest time between contractions. The contractions may double peak, or they may seem to be one right after the other without any break.
Transition is the time when the mother is the most emotionally needy as well. Some women need constant reassurance that they are ok and the baby is fine. This may be due to the overall "giving up" and feeling that she is out of control. Most women will respond well to positive encouragements and some require no special consideration other than giving them the physical and emotional space to labor.
The "giving up" or feeling out of control may be recognized by comments the mother makes. It is not uncommon for a mother to say, "I can't do this," or "I need something." Recognize that this is not the mother asking for medication, but for help. She can no longer handle the labor the way she has been, and she needs to do something different.For the new Mommy:
1. Please stay in bed or resting with feet up as much as possible. LET OTHERS HELP YOU… they are blessed by “doing something” for you and your growing family. You take care of the baby; they take care of everything else. Do not go up & down stairs more than once a day.
2. Eat lots of fruit, veggies and lean protein. Drink plenty of water and herbal tea.
3. If this is your second baby or more, it is normal to have cramping with nursing. I will leave you “Afterease” herbs to help with that. Taking extra Calcium will also ease the pain.
4. Your emotions may vary between elation and weepiness; this is normal and it will pass soon.
5. If your belly suddenly feels crampy and/or looks swollen at the bottom, feel for the top of the uterus… if it is above your naval, ask someone to help you to the bathroom and massage your uterus as you sit on the toilet. You may pass small clots; this is okay. We need your uterus to contract and get the blood out. If you pass anything larger than a gulf ball or if there is a foul smell, I need to know.
6. If you start running a fever or are saturating more than one pad every hour, please call me right away. After the first day, bleeding should be very much like your period.
For the Newborn:
1. The newborn’s face may be swollen or even a bit bruised. The plates in the
skull may overlap. This is normal and will be better within a few days.
2. Look for a wet diaper and a meconium movement in the first 24 hours.
3. Keep working at nursing and do not be too quick to offer a bottle. This causes
nipple confusion. I will make sure there has been a good latch before I leave. Follow all the steps: wide awake baby with a good, open mouth; baby’s belly to yours; a pleated nipple held with fingers and thumb forming a C; bring the baby’s head to you; check that the bottom lip is not curled into the mouth. The cross-cradle or football hold works best for good control when you feel like you “don’t have enough hands”.
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