IDAYAM SOCIAL WELFARE MISSION

இதயம்சமுதாய நல ஸ்தாபனம்/LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF

IDAYAM SOCIAL WELAFRE MISSION

Idayam Social Welfare Mission [IDSOWEM]

[Anon-profitable Charitable Trust, Registered under Charitable Trust Act] is a local indigenous,

non-denominational, non-profit making Private Voluntary Organization (PVO) whose mission is to build the welfare of the people of India including The Southern States of India especially Tamil Nadu through moral, spiritual, physical ,Unity and Integrity among Indians, updating Brotherhood g currently, The  Mission has under taken its programmes in  districts of Tamil Nadu.We have so far conducted so many Seminars on Child Birth Contorl,Environemental Programmes,Free Legal Aid Service Campaign, Voice against Deforestation, Eradication of castism system, Aids Awareness Programmes,Free Education Teaching to Adults, Free Tuition and Education Teaching to Poor and Orphan Students those who are in Huts and in Slumbers Area, Voices Against The Cruel Dowry System, AIDS Awareness among Brothel/Prostitutes, Condoms distribution to poor illiterate people, Welfares of Widows, Welfares of Aged People Programmes,Eradication of Child Labour,Human Rights Awareness Programmes,Recommending the Poor Women to Start Self Help Groups to Develop Their Economical Condition and the Status of Life and Education of Their Children in the Society,Education development care centers at the huts of Orphan/Poor Children,Recommanding The Government's Social Welfare Departments  the status of Illiteracy,Overwhelming Child Birth, Need of Pure Water Plantation and Social Economical conditions.

 

OUT LINE OF INDIA:

The Indus Valley civilization, one of the oldest in the world, dates back at least 5,000 years. Aryan tribes from the northwest invaded about 1500 B.C.; their merger with the earlier Dravidian inhabitants created the classical Indian culture. Arab incursions starting in the 8th century and Turkish in the 12th were followed by those of European traders, beginning in the late 15th century. By the 19th century, Britain had assumed political control of virtually all Indian lands. Indian armed forces in the British army played vital role in both World Wars. Non violent resistance to British colonialism led by Mohandas GANDHI and Jawaharlal NEHRU brought independence in 1947. The subcontinent was divided into the secular state of India and the smaller Muslim state of Pakistan. In1971 East Pakistan becoming the separate nation of Bangladesh. Despite impressive gains in economic investment and output, India faces pressing problems such as the ongoing dispute with Pakistan over Kashmir, massive overpopulation, environmental degradation, extensive poverty, and ethnic and religious strife

India, a country since attaining her independence on 15thAugust, 1947 has had more than a fair share of instabilities due to Over  Population, Even India is a big Democracy Country next to USA  with several customs,cultures,convention with thousands of local languages and so many Religious beliefs, She has its own merits and demerits also.Multi-political Parties intrigues, Corruption, Caste System, Religious Enmity, Languages Indifference, mutual Corruption, Poverty, greed and all sorts of human weaknesses. Resultant to these wide spread human sufferings for Our people,

The chaos in and among our People due to illiteracy, Over Population, The Projects Corrupted by Politicians has been the main cause of the several thousand innocent  Poor Children, Child Labour,Once in India The Cruel Barbaric system of SATHI left a multitude of widows, Illiterate Daughters/Sons and inestimatable number of orphans.  In addition to that, is the devastating blow to the population by the AIDS scourge, which is considered to be more severe since both parents perish leaving their offspring's on their own.  It is against this background that Idayam Social Welfare Mission Initiative came into existence to address the above problems through dedicating our Social Services.

 

 

 

A STUDY OF IDSOWEM OF ORPHAN CHILDREN/STUDENTS :

 

Thousands and thousands of kids are scattered around the India with no families, no homes, and no futures.   Abandoned, forgotten, and unneeded.  We call them orphans.  They call themselves... simply children.  

They are just as affectionate, smart, funny, and at times sulky and misbehaving as our own sons and daughters.  But they have no parents to hug them, no grandparents to send gifts on Christmas, no place to call their own once they finish school.  

Some children need surgeries or medical care not budgeted in by local authorities.  Others yearn for some educational opportunities or support once they are on their own. 

Some are available for adoption and hope everyday to find love and security of a new home.  Others still believe their relatives would take them in.

They all dream about something, be it mom and dad, or a hearing aid, or just a toy and a card for Birthday to know they are not alone. It would be impossible for any single person to save them all.  But focus on just one child and you can change his/her world forever.

  

 

 

PLEASE MAKE SMILE ON THE FACE OF ANGELS AND IN YOU!

 

WE EXPECTS SPONSOSRS FOR POOR  STUDENTS/ORPHAN STUDENTS/SEMI-ORPHAN STUDENTS OF BOTH MALE AND FEMALE BETWEEN THE AGE GROUP1-15.YOU SHALL BE THESE CHILDREN ANGEL'S FOSTER PARENTS/GRANDMA/GRANDFA/AUNTY/UNCLE.IF YOU INTERESTED PLEASE CONTACT US WE WILL FORWARD TO YOU THE DETAILS OF THESE ANGELS WITH THEIR BEAUTIFUL CHARMING SNAPS YOU MAY SELECT ONE OR MORE AS YOU LIKE.THEN WE WILL FORWARD TO YOU THE DETAILS OF THESE CHILDREN ANGELS.MOREOVER SIX MONTHS ONCE WE WILL FORWARD TO YOU THE UPDATES OF YOUR ANGEL/ANGELS IN CONNECTION WITH THEIR EDUCATIONAL PROGRES,NUTRITION PROGRESS ETC . CONSTITUTION    OF INDIA SAYS "EDUCATION IS COMPULSORY TO ALL MALES/FEMALES UNDER THE AGE OF 14 "BUT DUE TO POVERTY,ILLITERACY NOT ABLE TO ACHIVE IT.  WE WANT TO BE A BRIDGE BETWEEN BOTH CHILD AND FOR YOU! IN THE COMING DAYS.

 

 

 A STUDY OF WOMEN:

It is generally presumed that those who visit brothels men living away from their families and, therefore looking  for an option to satisfy their sexual needs.But recent study has revealed that married men,especially those living with thir spouses are equally likely to frequent brothels or abuse trafficked girls.

 

The Study sponsored by the National Human Rights Commission and Unifem and conducted by the Institute of Social Sciences across twelve States found that 45.5% of the clients were married and among them, 72.9% were living with spouses. As many as 54.5%of the married clientele had wieves aged below 35.

The high level of exploitation and vulnaerability of children are also highlighted.Among the trafficked girls, 20.7% were below 18 and a majority was pushed in to  the trade at a very young age.

 

The study showed that a girl in a brothel dealt with an average of of seven clients per day and most of them had no right to choose. They had no choice regarding the use of condoms or safe sex practices.As many as 32.3% were suffering from HIV,30% from STD and 17% from other gynecological problems.

 

More than 60%victims of commercial sexual exploitation were also victims of child marriage.The extreme vulnerability  of children and a high demand for them for commercial exploitation is established by the fact that 22.9% had been pushed in to brothels even while they were less than 16 and 21.4%while they were in the 16-17 age group.

 

Shockingly the data show that 50% of the traffickers were women. Though the trafficker adopted different modus operandi,51.9% lured the victim with job offers and 16.3% with false promises of marriage.Almost 50% of traffickers focused on rural areas for recruitment.

 

The failure of Government in  in rehabilitation is reflected in the high re-trafficking rate .The study found 17.5%had been rescued once earlier ,1.8%rescued twice before, and 6.6%rescued more than twice.It was also found that more than 57.5 had been arrested earlier, without proper ehabilitation,they have no option but to eturn to the brothels.

 

The failue to arrest exploitation in brothels is highlighted by the fact that 34.5% of the brothel owners never faced any police action during peceding one year and 53.4% of them had avoided arrest by bribing police officials.

 

The study based on interviews of more than 4000 persons demonstrated that more often than not the trafficked victims are the ones who who are convicted  and fined..Under the exsiting judicial system, the prosecution has to prove the case against the offender beyond reasonable doubt.This puts a lot of pressure on the victim to convincingly present her case.

 

 

In our IDAYAM SOCIAL WELFARE MISSION[IDSOWEM] special study it  is found that In most of the cases even the judiciary know very well that the particular accused has 100% chances of committing of a particular offences, but due to the failure of police officials to establish the case against culprits ,the circumstances compels the judicial to adopt the theory of "Benefit of Doubt" which means if prosecution if failed to prove his/her case in the Court against accused, Courts will automatically adopt this theory and will release the so-called accused from their  liabilities.

Consequently, these people's  health system, educational awareness and economic base have been totally destroyed propelling the population into a vicious cycle of ill-health, illiteracy, low school attendance by these women's children, environmental degradation, low food/nutrient feeding to their children, These women have migrated from rural to urban area to do their so called this very old flesh trade.due to eradicate their poverty line, Our Mission have great concern of these people and recommending to do small Trade/Industry forming small shops with provissions,Self help group forming etc.

 

 

OUR MISSION TO TSUNAMI VICTIMS:

The mostly affected places in the State of Tamil Nadu [one of States of

India]is the Districts namely [1]Kanyakumari[2]Nagapattinam[3]Chennai

In these three Districts in Kanyakumari District only[Clouchel Seashore side]

368 people were died on 26th December 2004 due to the cruel and selfish  Sea

attack of Tsunami.Soon after attack of the Tsunami in Clouchel on that date

[26th December 2004] We, Members and Volunteers of Idsowem applied its mind

to rush to the spot and assisted the Fisher Men and Women.We helped and assisted

to rescue and to Cary the dead bodies of Tsunami Victims to Hospital.Our Volunteers

under the head of Mr. E.S.Manaian had done so many selfless services to these victims.

Our Volunteers namely S.Renga Ravi, Mrs.Shunmuga Sundari, Miss.Johnsi,S.Mr .Ramesh

Mr.Subbharayalu Reddy.Our Founder of IDSOWEM From the very next day onwards

Visited all these three Districts which were very cruely affected by Tsunami attack.

Our immensive services to Tsunami Victims dated 26th December 2006 is detaily published

"KALAI MANNA"Tamil Daily News Paper.If you interested we are ready to

forward to you all in the coming days.Among those who lost their lives are Mostly 

Chi ldren and Women.Among those Children alive,some of the Children have lost their faith,some of them have lost their mother and yet some Children have neither brother nor

sister. Among those who alive as Adults most of the women have lost their beloved

hus band and some of the men have lost their lovely spouses.In all these three Districts mos t

of the people are under the clutches of  "physical and Mental Agony".In order to boost

these people our Idsowem Volunteers under the head of founder of Idsowem have visit-

ed places like Chennai,Nagapattinam and Clouchel and have conducted seminars and

workshops on"mental and physical strength.Our Services on mental strengthening the

Tsunami victims is published in daily News Papers.On behalf of Idsowem for the welf-

Are of Tsunami victims we have distributed so many welfare schemes.Most of Private

Volunteers Organisation[PVO]paid most of the attention on getting and titling their names in the daily news paper with pictures but as far as Idsowem is concerned it paid attention only on the welares of these Victims in all these three Districts in Tamil Nadu.

26 Children those who born on 26th of December 2004 at Seashore of Nagapattinam District have celebrated their first birth day on 26th Dec.2005 with embracing with their

parents in memory of Tsunami.These kind of celebration have given gay and joy to those who under the clutches of fear of Tsunami.Eventhough all these 26 Children have

different names their pet name is"MASTER TSUNAMI". Since most of the Children

under the clutches of fear of Tsunami, they feel great fear without their knowledge even

if they just saw the tide of Sea to bring these Children to normal condition we have taught so many moral story strengthen them in physically and mentally. We have conducted

seminars also to Adults inorder to strengthen them physically and mentally. In Kanya

Kumari District in India mostly affected villages due to Tsunami are [1]Clouchel[2] Az-

Hikal, Pillai Thoppu[3]Kottipadu[4]Chottha Vilai[5]Sangudurai.

 

 

 

A PECULIAR STATEMENT/INTERVIEW OF MRS.ARUMAINAYAGI OF AZHIK-

KAL VILLAGE NOW SHE HAS BECOME WIDOW DUE TO HER HUSBAND'S

DEATH IN TSUNAMI ATTACK ON 26/12/2004:

 

"I got married 25 years back. My husband's native is Chennai District. We have no Children. As do not want to live in Chennai due to high expenditures in daily walk of life and

in addition to it since it was a Metropolitan City so that we came here in to the Village

of Azhikal[one Sea shore Village in Kanyakumari District which was severally affected

due to Tsunami attack on 26th December 2004]and established a small Provisional store

and led the peace full life with our average daily in come. We have no Children out of

our married life. To whom I was Child and to me he was Child. While the day on Tsunami attacked on 26th Dec.2004 he was in the provisional store and I wa in my hut. All of sudden the sea water came and full down him in to sea.Since he was with un conscious

Carried him to 'Rajakamangalam Hospital'.The Hospital Authority told that due to the

all of sudden of Tsunami attack and he was rolled in the sea waves he is affected by the

Cardiac arrest. After 10 days gap I conveyed my husband to Bangalore [India] take some

What better treatment since his own sister is living there in. Even we showed him to Doctors there in it was not possible to get him normal so that he was died there in so I

Simply buried him there in without any Religious Rituals and customs and came back

To my Seashore village Azhikal.When I approached the Revenue Authority for compensations since my husband was died due to Tsunami attack, but they refused to give me

even a single welfare schemes. 'Now what I will do in this World?I had only one source

that is my beloved husband now I have lost him also'.It was very difficult to control her from her agony.She was full of sorrow and tears. Above cited story is one of the stories

among so many stories and due to lack of time it is not possible to tell you all stories.

But our immensive services to Tsunami Victims is a mile stone in our path of Social Se

Rvices to the Society since Idsowem was established in 1991.We willing and eager to

Do so many welfare schemes to the victims of Tsunami, but due to the lack of fund

In sufficient it is not possible to impement all kind of welfare schemes.Most of the Children of Tsunami Victims in need of good medical treat ment,health schemes and good

Neutrino food and also excellent education in order to build their future without fear

And worry.We have decided to establish an orphanage for the welfare of All Orphan

Of those who have lost their parents due to Tsunami attack on 26thDecember 2004.

We request all of you pray for these innocent people especially for the poor orphan Children,in case if you were not in a position to do any help through IDSOWEM since

"Prayer is the Victory."The Bible says

 

"HE WHO IS KIND TO THE POOR LENDS

TO LORD, AND HE WILL REWARD HIM FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE"

PROVERBS CHAPTER: 19 VERSES 17.

 

 

 

MISSION TOCHILDLABOUR:

In our search the main reason for the up coming of the Child Labour Juvenile offenders is nothing but their bad envionement, family's poverty conditions,Illiteracy are the main reasons. In order to eradicate these social evils among the youths and Child Labourers we are taking steps to establish an Orphanage by name "Idayam Youths Welfare Home".Even though the Government has enacted so many Law in order to eradicate the Child Labour as there is no awareness among the parents and in the Society it is not possible to eradicate it.Most of the parents have so many Children especially female Children.As I had been indicated in above the cruel dowry system still exists in India ,The dowry means during the time of marriage more particularly at the time of engagement the parents of the Bride should give a huge Sum and so many Sovereign of Gold to the parents of Bridegroom as a gifts inorder to Bridegroom accept his partner as his wife. The quantum of dowry will increase to high according to the family status and the profession of bridegroom. In case for example if the parents of the bride didn't give the dowry as suggested by  the parents of bridegroom from the very first day of first night itself the Bride should under go harassments by the parents of the bridegroom. In Tamil Nadu in some of the parts parents kill the female child soon after she borns.They think it I great burden to to get marry them. Even the female child wanted to continue her school educations most of the parents will not allow to start her education because the parents of these girls think that if she educated ;who will give bridegroom' Most of the female child toped their education after primary level.Most of the parents poisioning their second female  child.Eventhough the Constitution of Republic of India says 'Primary education is important and compulsory under the age 14 both male and female,'since there is no awareness among the Public in general it is not possible to implement properly.Most of the parents are illiterate and they do not know except eat,drink and to be merry with his wife. In addition to it as you India is in second of population next to China. Even the Government  Advertise that 'we two our two' it is not still reached the public properly. In our research we found that most of the youth, especially Child Labourers going to the wok places like Workshops,Companys,Factories,Hotels,Tea Stalls and to the Food Stuffs due to the poverty of the family.Most of the illiterate man in India earn even below 1$ per day. As far as female youths are concerned they going to the Factories like Garments, Cigars for rolling, In our research we found that 'Child Labourers are not born but made'. The circumstances which has let them to this kind of situation especially to face all kind of social evils in this sojourn World. Due to the family circumstances most of the female girls between the age of 12 to 16 are foced to do prostitution.Some times at night even her own father compels her to lay in the intoxication mood. In addition to it most of the poor families are living in Pavements, High way Streets, Pavements and

also under the Bridge where these type  of youths are forced to do prostitution in order to feed them due to poverty,etc…Our Mission has decided to adopt  the

Following methods  of services

a) To develop and improve the social economic conditions of the Parents of Child Labouers

b) To raise educational awareness aming these Child Labourers as well as their parents.

c) To raise the local skills and expertise in farming methods.

d) To improve the health and nutritional standards of the Child Labourers community.

e) To improve the earning capacity of the Parents of Child Labourers.

f) To improve and develop the moral, and spiritual behaviours of the  Child Labourers community.

 

FUTUREPROGRAMME/TARGETOFIDSOWEM:

1. Planning and implementing community development and educational projects.

2. Planning and implementing self-help projects.

3. Planting health centres and Community  Centers

4. National Integrated community development schemes.

5. Integrated community development programmes for socially and financially disadvantaged children.

6. Widows and disabled projects

7. Sustainable agricultural projects.

8. Aids control and mitigation program.

9. Men, Women and Youth projects

10. Environmental rehabilitation and protection program.

11. Functional adult education program

12. Micro-Finance enterprise projects.

13. Human Rights Program

14. Child care education sponsorship program

15. Emergency Relief Programs

16. Computer training programme / Internet Programme (Tele-centres.).

17. Water and Sanitation program

18, Aged Homes Establishing programme

 

TARGET GROUPS:

IDSOWEM does not discriminate any person by gender, race, political or religion when it comes to community development.

Our target groups are the people both in urban and rural areas who are socially disadvantaged, economically active but poor, Illiterates and in poor health.

 

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IDSOWEM OPERATIONPOLICIES:

1IDSOWEM establishes community based development care centres on Division, county or sub-county level through volunteers.

2.-  This PVO mainly enters in partnership with churches, schools and organized community groups.

3.-  The established centres are governed by the Initiative but the administration of the centres is managed by the beneficiaries.

4.-  The organization reserves the right to make final decisions on matters concerning the projects within the centre.

5. -  The local community makes a contribution to fund the establishment of the centre in order to create a sense of ownership of the development programme within the centre and this contribution is for processing documents, photographs, communication between centres and the Head office, training centre leaders in the project planning, management and transport, it also helps in finding agencies to support the proposed developmental projects within the centre.  Therefore the contribution is non-refundable.

 

 

 

CURENT ACTIVITIES:

As already mentioned IDSOWEM has already established so many development care centres in various districts of India About1000 socially disadvantaged children who need assistance towards their education, health and general welfare, have already been identified and registered.  We are in the process of looking for possible sponsors.  Elder orphans and needy children have also been identified; and these need vocational training for most of them have reached ages which do not allow them to attend formal primary education.  Illiterate elders have also been identified and registered.  We are looking for a donor who can assist us in building a pool of funds to run this project.  Other activities are not put into action due to lack of resources.

 

 

ACHIEVEMENTS:

IDSOWEM has managed to achieve the following:

1] Carried out and identified people’s problems.

2)Established community development care awareness programmes.

3) Registered 1000 needy children and orphans among them 30 receiving educational care from us.

4 Conducted about 20 Child Labourers eradication seminars.

5) Managed to teach adult education to illiterate Community.

6.We have brought to the notice of Government the problem of Community

7) We have conducted the so many Human Rights Awareness Programmes.

8) Carried out seminars and workshops in project planning, implementation and management at the centres for beneficiaries, centre leaders, social workers, and other responsible people.

9) Managed to sponsor some of the registered children mentioned above for the welfare and future of them.

 

 

PROBLEMS AND CHALLENGES:

a) The organization lacks seed money in operating its duties.

b) The organization has limited staff due to lack of funds to pay for their services.

c) The mission lacks resources most especially for training our partners in different skills.

d) The organization has no reliable transport of its own.

e) The organization faces a great challenge of expectations from community members thinking that it has a lot of money.  They expect quick results thinking that programmes can materialize in a very short time, while there is need for long term planning.

f) The organization depends on local contribution from community, which is very little and not reliable.

 

 

 

POSSIBLE AREAS OF CO OPERATION:

1. IDSOWEM needs to be included in all workshops organized by the Secretariat of the children either local or international.

2. It needs to share information with Secretariat of the Children and other organizations, which can lead to the development and improvement of its services.

3. The organization needs to be assisted with training facilities so that it can organize seminars and workshops for its partners at the local level.

4. It needs assistance in finding and getting donors who can fund its priority programmes most especially those which involve: (a) Micro finance programmes.  (b) Child Care Sponsorship Programmes.  (c)  AIDS Control and eradication of  child labourers programmes. 

 

 

OUR FUTURE PLANS:

The local people's efforts alone need considerable supplement if the original status and wanted development is to be achieved.

The plans consist of a number of related sequential steps;

a) a statement of policy

b) a statement of objectives

c) The action plan itself consists of programmes

d) The prioritization of those programmes.

IDSOWEM seeks to further its aims and aspirations if you and us can come together to fight together. For any other details Please CONTACT US.

 

DEVELOPMENT POLICY:

The basic policy is to reconstruct and rehabilitate the area’s infrastructure and return it to at least its former productive position remembering that this in itself will not be enough, as the world has moved further since these areas started experiencing negative development.  This needs a well coordinated plan.

 

 

DEVELOPMENT OBJECTIVES:

The above policy therefore suggests that the well-being programme for these areas should be divided into number of phases, which indicate the urgency of the need and priority activities.

a) The short-term objectives of rehabilitating the area’s productive asset and social infrastructure.

The long-term objectives of initiating or promoting means intended to uplift the people’s living standards, at least to an acceptable minimum level.

 

 

ACTION PLAN

Because of the over population, work needs to be done in virtually every sector.  All things however, cannot be done at once, thus particularly due to limited resources and partially because of the need to phase certain things sequentially, a chart indicating prioritization of establishing an orphanage for both males and females has been drafted.  Since the programmes will be too large for any sponsor is limited by time, there is need to solicit for funds from many sources. Due to in sufficients of funds it is not possible to chive our targets.  

We request the general public to donate us to a chive this Society programmes.Even though there is available man power, but due to in sufficients of funds it is not possible to achieve the targets in time. You shall send your donations to us through Demand drafts, Cheques, Euro Dollars and US Dollars. You also shall get receipt for your donations from us,we,mean receipts for what sum you are donating to us for the welfares of future target and also to the present works which is going on.

 

 

CONCLUSION:

Realistically speaking

IDAYAM SOCIAL WELFARE MISSION [IDSOWEM] attempt towards rehabilitation, reconstruction and development should be viewed and judged in its full and proper context.  It is the people who have willingly requested the mission to work together with them so that they can improve their standards and conditions of living on self basis. 

When these people at the grassroots who are the contributor to the national economy receive proper guidance, funding and capacity building, the unpleasant problems of object poverty, ignorance, disease, unemployment, illiteracy, environment developmental degradation and rural to urban migration and many others will then be circumvented. 

I therefore welcome your support for the development and improvement of the condition of living for our people in particular and the country at large.

 

 

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