To whom this may concern, Well looks like BILL that your lucky man number 4. Yes thats right number 4. Let's see first there was an ausi from overseas. Your lil love bunnies fist online love. and just like you, she made plans with him. Plans that would land her right smack dab in ausi far away from the man she has invested the better part of 15 years with, let alone had two kids with. Back then things wher simple and Clitus didn't even know about him untill she slipped. Something was said, Something was "Accedentaly" left out for him to see, or hear. To her suprise she found that this upset him Greatly. Even caused him to have to "FAKE" another trip to the hospital. Must have been a pretty good fake cause the doctor was quite specific in his summary of his condition. must have had to pay a large ammount of money to have a doctor diagnose him suffering a stroke and a heart attack. must have cost alot of money to have them put him in ICU for 2weeks to monitor his condition. Yet, his only income at the time was SSN disability. And his "SUPPOSED WIFE'S" only concern was making plans to leave to austrailia while he was in ICU. Well thanks to Clitus's children at home he was given all the details of her online activities and talks to the stranger from down under. When clitus returned home he made one breif phone call to Australia and told Jeff what i am sure he has told you "Take her by all means, if she wants to go. I wish you two the very best." Then there was man number two. I didn't know much about this one but from what i hear, it was brought to a stop rather quickly as Clitus was in no mood to deal with the gelousy of her online activities nor suffer the undue stress of it all. In fact he gave her the money to buy her own PC so he could finish the books he was writing before she took over the computer he had to find her online lovers. as long as he could bury himself in his books he felt that he did not have to worry about his marrage and how rocky it was geting. I am sure a few more not so serious men have come and gone from this point up untill man number three because it takes practice and time to hone ones skills in the ART of online bullshitery. Some things need to be learned some kids needed to teach her the CORRECT way to set up an account in yahoo. Meanwhile the silent agreement between Clitus and tiny was made that whatever goes on in GOR goes on but when the computers wher shut off it was back to normal husband and wife. Only problem was agreements like that don't last and the computer would never get shut off. MANY times there was one person going to bed at 10 or 11 while another would remain in cyberspace like a zombie. Then there was Art. Yes Art the hypnotist. Thinking he was talking to a young lovely 26 yrold woman who lived in a very busy household with her sister i belive it was. Raceing to the phone to answer it before anyone else did in order to make sure she didn't have to exsplain why when he called there was another mans voice on the phone or why "MOM" was yelled out to get her on the phone as she said she had no kids to art. She had her daughter play her SISTER a few times to keep up the cherades. No this is where the relationship gets more than rocky. So what clitus finds some female freinds on line, He's not sitting there masterbating to their voice in front of his wife. Yet she had no qualms about doing it with Art in voice while her "HUSBAND" sat right next to her SUPPOSEDLY ASLEEP. So is Clitus wrong for having his Female friends online?? I think not. Is he wrong for having some Pics sent to him or get phone calls from other females IN FREINDSHIP ONLY?? I think not. Whats good for the Goose should be good for the gander right? WEll art starts talking trips to see her in Real life, getting her tickets to come and see her, and things get a bit sticky as she is supposed to be this walking goddess of a 26 year old instead a 3 time grandmother. Oh then the pisa resistaunce .. She lives with Clitus now..Well thats not right he's almost 50..finds out he isin't talking to who he thinks he is and Puts ol Tiny to the test. "OK who are you and what the hell is going on??" Well lets just say the email was rather pitifull. So was she moping around here for almost 10 damn days. I mean he has invested alot of time and feelings into that relationship thinking "hey this woman got something i like and she is Beutiful to boot!!" Then finds out he's been dueped by his freinds WIFE. And yes i say Freinds because Art and tiny didn't talk again for quite some time. But you bet your ass Clitus and Art did. And you betcha he was given all the facts in great detail. He was given everything that was not known even after Tiny had said "It's the god honest truth!!" So in return you have been Given the same Fond and heartfelt Blessing, as it was not made in Sarcastic resent of any form at all. "If you want her, you take her. I hope the both of you live happily ever after. May you live long and happily for the rest of your days. Call if you need anything anytime." Well now comes the truth of the matter. All the facts that "I KNOW FOR A FACT" you don't know or have neglected to be told. So just as your own personal information so your not cutting your own dick off later. A. She was never leagaly married to Clitus. Sure there might be a marrage cert but it's not worth the paper it was printed on. See her EX before clitus was said to be dead, some hard assed Biker fuck that kills people for fun. Well seems that durring the attempt to adopt Josh her oldest and Patrick her other boy, The lawyer did the check for their dad and Holy sheep shit he is not only still alive, but there was no legal divorce from him as well. Clitus offered to pay for the DIVORCE and adopt the two kids and TINY REFUSED. This left quite a hole in Clitus as his attempt to correct the faulty marrage between tham was just shot down by her. The lawyer at the time Even said. "Well you know if anything happens between you and Clitus that your basicly leaving with nothing but the cloths on your back and a box of your possesions right?" And she knew that being smart enough to know that another marrage without divorce proof was no marrage at all in fact could be considered adulterous. It was HER choice to do nothing and hope for the best leaving the situation as it was. B. Because of the above is why when she leaves she leaves with nothing but HER SHIT. She leaves with Clothes. She leaves with her guitar and her computer and maybe her fucking cat. THAT IS ALL, no network cables no routers no cablemodem no extra hard drive or monitor no CAR no bed nothing but her shit her check and a tent perhaps. NO snowshoes no dog no tv no vcr no cdplayer no fucking NOTHING. And as long as she decides to keep peacefull while she is here and not cause any bullshit, She will leave with everything she is entitaled to, be treated fairly and respectfully. C. Clitus gave her more than enough of himself and of his patience. He belived that the marrage could work if he laid off her and let her do her thing. he was sure that if he just held out a bit longer and waited that she would get her kicks and be done with it. But he too also came to the understanding that they wher both tiered of eachother. They both agreed in calm tones to go their own separate ways. SHE KNEW he would go see a lawyer. because he figured common law marrages wher going to need a divorce. he was going to pay for it an everything untill his lawyer again reminded him that "Unfortunately this marrage Is not legal, Chantal is of age and will choose who she wants to be with." They agreed that they would both follow chantals wishes. What really happened i think you and I both know. And I also know that is an area you did not want to stick your nose into other than to give very smart and sound advise to tell Tiny to leave her be. I know the last thing you want is a Kid running around mucking up your relationship with your new slave so it was good of you to use the resentment remark while listening to her ramble about dhs and calling if she didn't get her outta here. She even made plans to have her moved into big bros house with his wife in fl. What the hell happened to listening to chantal?? well here is her Email addrerss ask her yourself what she wants to do..and be sure and include the request to have her tell you what she thinks of you too.. I think you might be slightly embarrased as her mouth does sprout colorfull words of wonder. She is the silent one that sees all while all others think she is just in her own little world. D. I am sure that to avoid the possibility of LEAGALITIES like having her removed for a violent outburst, or having to go to court to fight for custody or to have to talk to CPS or DHS or even trying to exsplain why she does not have a shred of Identification to verify her name is indeed TONI MARIE WHATEVER.. No licence, no birth certificate, Getting the law to do anything for her without having those questions brought up and exsamined closely.. would be almost impossible. Therefore whetever or whomever she is hiding from should her true identity be found will most likely find her and complete the cycle of her fates as that is what she was running from and continues to run from. Yes you can say that it is a bit like bending her over the table and sticking it in her ass, but it's better than her leaving with just the cloths on her back, and a check in hand at the nearest bus stop. Clitus doesn't have to do anything for her. he doesn't have to let her stay here. he doesn't have to be nice to her even when she talks smack about him on the internet. He doesn't even feel like he has to give her a ride ot the Bus stop, but he is. and on all counts he is being nice and handling this like an adult. In closing i would like to remind you that your LEETO computer skills might be good, but gidions are better. your threats might be complex to the avrage fool, but nothing but smack to someone who knows the game. So lets be smart and play this by the rules and by the agreement. You get what you want. they get what they want an no one leaves the table in loss. But even just one fuckup..one act of intentional damage physicly, emotional espianage, or backstabbing is going to result in world war fucking 3. Do Your part to keep things in check rather than promote dissaster unless ofcource that has been your goal all along. The Watcher|||