When I look into those jet black eyes I can see her soul. I sense kindness, loyality, passion, happiness and a fire so bright it warms all those around her. This Filipina is my rock, my stability, my purpose and the reason I am a better man. I want to please her for no other reason than to see her smile. Every day I am with her is a blessing for which I am so grateful. My life is complete.
I never have to look back again. My days of dating women who are more concerned with controlling the relationship v/s building one are over. I am not bitter because I am now free. The death sentence given to me by feminism has been commuted to life in a tropical paradise. My dreams of having a beautiful wife and children have been realized. It was worth the twenty years Iost to final have arrived in a better place. Thanks to all the Filipinas that give us western guys a chance to love you at Melinda's Filipina Penpals!
The first thing you do not want to do is pay for a membership. Free Filipina and Asian dating is here to stay and there is no reason to pay anyone. You will see dozens and dozens of pay Filipina sites start up every month. Except for a very small majority, they will all fail. Why? Because they are built on deceiving their customers. They all talk about FREE MEMBERSHIPS but the membership is useless. You get the ability to browse and contact no one.
Then to suck you in all of these mysterious ladies will be sending you winks and emails saying they want to contact you. Some guys will give in and pay only to find out later it was all a sham. First, guys out number ladies 3, 5, 10 or even 20 to 1 on all dating sites. Filipina ladies do not need to waste their time sending free members without access winks and email. I am giving you a wake up call now so you can avoid falling into that oldest trick in the book.
If you really want to marry a Filipina or Asian lady you can find a smaller free site where the odds are not so stacked against you. Free sites attract higher quality guys and ladies. Why? There are several reasons. First, the owners of free sites have no motivation to screw you. Second, the owners of free sites care more about the quality of people that use their site. They are often owned by Fil-West couples that take pride in what they do. Third, the people that use free Filipina sites (guys and ladies) feel better about what they are doing because no one is paying for love and frienship. Fourth, scammers are less likely to frequent free sites because they figure the guys using them are cheap (or smart) and will not send them money.
Melinda's Filipina Penpals will never be the largest Filipina dating site on the internet. But we are just fine with things this way. It is better to be the needle in the hay stack instead of just another pay site known for scammers and rip offs. Sure, we still have some problems with scammers. Any site with any traffic will have some. The good news is they are a lot less common on our free site, and the members are quick to point them out. We are a community that works together to make things more enjoyable for all members.