我很赞成,爱一个人并不是占有,我也试过了这种感觉,爱一个人就要成全他,让他得到快乐.


失恋过才会懂,分手原来轻松,太坚持才是束缚!

�E我现在还是没有见过第二第四种人啊
�E�E�E不知道要等到什么时间

—— 欧阳婉惠 回复于 2005.03.28 08:45

我遇到的前三种人。我自己和我最爱的和最爱我的。希望也是和我共度一生的人！
�E�E�E�E希望他是我的！


我是个很情绪话的人，很感性/

嘿嘿..我快要碰到第四种人了..不是妥协.是一种感觉..传说中在合适的时间合适的地点碰到了合适的人,感觉很安逸呀..我喜欢..是一种很平静的感觉....也许深爱过被伤过才知道什么是自己合适的, 他人很好..是居家型的男人..很有安全感,希望他能陪我一起慢慢变老....那是最浪漫的事了

經歷暸愛與被愛,我依然期待着生命中最后一個人的齣現~


若我有壹佰

每个人都会有如此的经历，就看本人是如何对待也

The four people you will meet in your life

Life is the process of looking for love. Everyone will find out four people in his or her life. The first person is yourself, second you love most, third loves you most, and the last one, the person who will accompany you in your whole life.
Firstly, you will encounter the person you love most, experiencing the feeling of love. Because you know the feeling of being loved, you can properly find the person loves you most. After you enjoyed feeling of love and being loved and learned how to love, then you could finally know what is you need most, and try to find out the person who is most suitable for you and will keep company with you. However, sorely in the real world, these three people can hardly be the same one: the one you love most, always doesn’t take you as her or his fere; the one loves you most, is generally not your favor; and the long-last one, unluckily, is only the person appears in the proper time.
Which role could you play in other people’s life? No one will intentionally turn his coat, for he was truly loving you at the honey time; and he really does not love you when the story is over. Whatever the end will be, he just tell you the truth —he can no longer pretend loving you . When he leaves you, you should ask yourself: do I still love him? If you don’t love him neither, ever never be not willing to leave him just for your poor self-esteem. On the contrary, if you still love him, you definitely ought to wish him a beatific blessedness, and wish he would stay with his true love. You should never think about prevent him from chasing happiness, which means you no longer love him. In addition, if you really in that mood, how dare you reproach his change?
Love is not possession; you cannot pick the moon from the sky and put it into the basin only because you like it, but the moonlight will still illuminate the room. In another word, true love is appreciating his own characteristic, loving his merits, and putting up with all his shortcomings. Never wish him would turn to be the person you want, and what you should do is just to engrave him in your memory eternally.
Otherwise, you will not love him any more by any chance. You cannot tell why you love somebody; the only thing you can tell is that no matter when and where you are, no matter whether you are in the good mood or not, you are always thirsting for being accompanied by him. The true affection can be reflected in the hardest time, in which you couples both show no sign of querimony.
�EAfter all, affection means not only acquirement, but also giving. The breakup between you guys is a doomed tribulation, if your attachment is not steady enough, the notice board standing on your loving road will definitely sign the word “closure.”
True love would never turn to be malice. When two people are falling in love with each other, pledge is their fancy. Why we are likely to swear our oath to our lover is that we do not trust the opposite part, we ultimately don’t believe “love”. Moreover, the so-called “the solemn pledge of love” is extremely impractical:” soever the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, cannot fluctuate my love to you!”
Nevertheless, we palpably know that the seas could not run dry, the rocks could not crumble. Even if that really happened, we have already become the dust. When you are preparing your oath, you should extremely notice that don’t make your promise achievable; you’d better swear something unrealizable, which means no responsibility in the future. Please remember:” more enchanting, less accomplishable.” In the love affair, what did you say is one thing, but what will you do is the other.
What about you? Which person did you find out?

我现在还是没有见过第3第四种人啊
�E�E�E不知道要等到什么时间


大家好，很高兴认识大家。

谁也不能说是哪个,知道,,,,
每个人走到了哪条路踏下了哪步就是某个结果.
没有什么是不可能的........


天空永远是那么的美丽,而我却永远是一朵漂流的云.....直到永远...消失在地球上....

四种人我都已经遇见,都已经经过,可是,在男女之间的爱情里,誓言也一定是谎言,只有真正的爱是不需要说什么,只需要行动来表现,你知道吗?放弃该放弃的吧,抓住自己爱的人和爱自己的人,也许你回突破一切

四种人我都还没遇见

四种人我都还没遇见

�E爱一个人要瞧缘分



--天空没有飞翔的痕迹，而我已飞过-

我觉得很有可能第2.第3.第4个人是同一人,那是最幸福的...


一个爱看星星的女孩

之所以说会遇见的四个人，是因为往往，这四个人不会是同一个人。这是一种无奈也是一种悲哀。经历过了爱与被爱，才会柳暗花明地觉悟到，其实爱与被爱没有哪一种更幸福的问题。不管是爱或被爱，都同样的爱罪。只有两者合一达到一个平衡的时候，那才是幸福。而且，他们是在对的时间对的地点出现……


喜欢咖啡的味道,喜欢用心去品味咖啡般的人生! �EQQ:465589349

失恋了 �E怎么那么符合我现在的心境 �E呵 �E�E人生不过如此 �E�E�E�E倘若这算真爱 那么真爱也不过如此 不堪一击 呵 �E�E相信过一阵子我会好受一点！


很忧郁的一个女孩哦。

楼上的朋友，多一次失恋，或许就会让你多一点明白爱情，也会让你更成熟一些……
爱情就像是个水晶球，很美，也很容易碎！！
希望时间会疗好你的伤口，早日快乐起来喔！！


喜欢咖啡的味道,喜欢用心去品味咖啡般的人生! �EQQ:465589349

是不是最爱你的人应该比你最爱的人出现的更早一些才对？？
如果不是失去最爱你的人，你根本就没有感受过爱，
更不可能知道你最爱的人是怎么一回事。。。。


我是我，自然、平静、不奢求、不逃避、欣然接受自已喜欢与不喜欢的事物

�E�E我已经遇到两个“第二种人“了，起初的那个只是一种对爱的最初感觉，但后来的那个却是我很爱很爱的，而又是伤害我很深很深的。我跟他相处了那么长的一段时间，但是他也没有正面对我说过那三个字。或许是因为我们都太年轻，所以才会觉得大学里的爱情还是那么虚无缥缈？？
�E�E爱到最后却是感伤，那又何必当初曾相识？
�E�E爱一个人为什么会那么辛苦呢？
�E�E


学生

看到朋友们的贴，看了许多别人的情感故事，突然觉悟到，这个世界上是不是没有一种爱能让人不受伤？？
爱过了，伤过了，许久后，心也许会趋于平静。心平静了，才会以平和的心态再去面对第四个人，所以第四个人会是你相伴一生的，尽管不是最爱，也不是最爱你的！！


喜欢咖啡的味道,喜欢用心去品味咖啡般的人生! �EQQ:465589349

�E�E总道无人愁似我，梅花开，似我愁！

�E花下风流花无常，恩恩怨怨何时了？






一阵漂泊的风，总想停下来，可却始终不能止步，我想一生就只有这么漂泊了。

我只在照镜子的时候见到了我自己。。。。


郁闷颓废 到了大城市后慢慢体验慢慢发现 这噶人都挺损 还一个比一个尖 要不就贼抠 要不就穷地就剩钱了 还拿俺当三炮 �E问俺是不是看啥都新鲜 我说你们是不是都破草帽子没沿跟我塞脸啊 真地一点不来选 咋说咱也练过两年 要是再跟我舞舞旋旋 走！那就出来 咱俩单练练