I have decided on the Wings West RS kit.  I chose it b/c its made out of urethane and it looks very nice and clean.  Plus the Buddy Club front lip i wanted i found to be too expensive and the Xtreme kit doesnt satisfy me anymore. heres a pic of it:

http://www.preludeteamholland.com/Foto/Gal/01/09.html and heres the back of it http://www.preludeteamholland.com/Foto/Gal/01/48.html 

the future also holds a drop on H&R sport springs and toxico shocks.  Maybe an H22, but ill probly hold on to the H23 until it dies b/c im cheap like that.

thats all for now... but things may change so check back later!