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Dear Lilly,
I'm 14 years old and one of my best friends won't lave my boyfriend alone. Everytime I'm with him, she flirts with him and talks to him all the time. But, When he leaves she tells me that he's hot and that he has a nice butt and everything. She Won't Leave Him Alone And Its Really Annoying... What Should I Do?
MY REPLY
Dear Brooke,
Well to be honest this 'friend' isnt a friend at all, and certainly not one of your best friends!!!! Flirting with a mate's boyfriend is one of the worst friendship sins of all, and your friend obviously doesnt care about how much she could end up hurting you. Number 1, you need to sit down and tell her that her behaviour is way out of line. If she's your friend, she'll stop doing it. If not, she's definitely not one you can rely on. You didn't say whether your boyfriend responds to her behaviour. If he does, I would get rid of him as well. If he doesn't, you need to talk to him about how much she's upsetting you and together you can work at putting her in her place. Seriously though, never take this kind of nonsense from girls who are supposed to be your friends. Let me know how it works out. Good Luck!
Love, Lilly x
Dear Lilly,
There's this guy I've dated 3 different times and every time I seem to like him more but it never works out for more then 3 weeks. The last time we broke up he was a total jerk about it and at that point I decided I wouldn't date him again. However it's been 3 months now and we are talking a lot again and hanging out just as friends, but recently he told me he would date me again if he had the chance. Now here's my problem, I like him a lot again, and it's so much easier (for me at least) to date him because we have a lot in common and are already good friends, but I know it's not gonna work and I keep trying to remind myself of the last time we broke up...what should I do???
MY REPLY
I was recently in a very similar situation myself hon, so I know exactly how you feel! I know you'll feel sad to hear this but if you've already dated him and it hasn't worked out it's probably not going to happen. Sometimes you get hold of a boy and you think he's the greatest and no matter what he does to you you can never let him go. If your feelings for him are THAT strong, then go for it and hope for the best. If you can manage to live without him, then be strong and move on. Only you know inside how you feel, and what's best for yourself. I hope this helps you, email me back if not xxx
Dear Lilly,
I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 5 months and just about a week ago i found out that him and my best friend were making out at his house..i thought of braking up with him but i really love him what should i do????
MY REPLY
Hey,
Boys who cheat on you will never amount to anything. If you stay with this boy you will find yourself paranoid and suspicious about his every move, and you will never be truly happy with him. I know how much it hurts, but please do yourself a favour, be strong and move on. You'll find that once the healing process is over you'll be able to live your life to the full. You deserve better than a cheat, and somewhere out there is the right boy who will treat you like a queen and give you the respect and love you truly deserve. And your 'best friend'? A friend who makes out with your boyfriend is not your friend. You need to do some serious thinking about her. I hope it all works out for you honey, feel free to email me again any time you want.xxx |
