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"I dream that love without tyranny is possible." -- Andrea Dworkin
"I believe in living on impulse as long as you never intentionally hurt another person, and don't judge people in your life. I think you should live completely free." -- Angelina Jolie
"The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn and change." -- Carl Rogers
"are you frustrated because of the way people perceive you, or are you happy enough about the things you've realized about yourself that you can tolerate the way people perceive you?" -- Shannon Hoon
"Love is possible only if two persons communicate with each other from the center of their existence. It is not a resting place but a moving, growing working together ... only in this 'central experience' is human reality, only here is aliveness, only here is the basis for love." -- Erich Fromm
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Who I am:
People are too complex for words to paint them faithfully, but words can draw an outline. My outline can be sketched thus: a spiritual, creative, honest, open, compassionate, bisexual (by choice), polyamorous, partnered, nuevo-gypsy, Georgian, curvy body-positive, fiercely individualistic, anti-porn, pro-nudity, pro-sex feminist/equalist, nudist, aquarian (gemini rising), genderfree female-bodied person. (shading and colors are added here) The qualities I'm currently building up in myself are fearlessness, faith, and creativity. I'm very aware of the dark brokenness of the world, but choose to focus on the sparks of beauty and work to create more light and love. Small things make me incredibly happy, and I'm always giggling -- or laughing so loud that everyone in earshot can't help but glance over. I enjoy wandering the passages of my own mind and am never bored. I keep my body hair, rarely wear makeup (and when I do it is wildly colorful & expressive), wear mismatched socks & running shoes with everything, and always wear long dangly earrings of my own design. I love my lush, curvy body; I dress it in comfortable, form-fitting, colorful clothing (death to 'fashion'!), and eat to fuel my body (never to change my shape). When I grow up, I want to travel half of the year and spend the rest in a low-impact woodland house, next to a pool, on land of my own, and be naked all the time.
What's in my LJ:
---my thoughts & feelings; my emotional journey
---society; my ideas on why it is the way it is and how it could change
---everyday life; what happens in my life and my reaction to it
---polls & interactive memes; me seeking to learn more of you
---photo posts; myself, my jewelry, randomosity
---art & music; every weekend I share some of my artistic inspirations
---music; once or twice a month I share my musical inspirations
---dreams; occasionally with interpretations
Why I'm here:
I use LJ to explore and express myself, and to connect with others who do the same. I strive always to learn more of myself and the world so that I can share and connect with more people. My most intense passion in life is to learn, in order to grow, and to grow, in order to love - more deeply, more freely, more openly. I believe love is my purpose for being. The more I love people, the easier it gets, because I come to understand them more, and when you truly understand a person, it's the easiest and most natural thing in the world to love them. I believe that at core we are all amazing, glorious spirits of incalculable worth. We all have a level of brokenness that keeps our spirits from being able to shine as they were meant to, but every act of love ripples out a wave of healing.
I'm always open to new connections: people who are headed in the same direction and could possibly link paths with me. I seek open, honest people, who share themselves freely, love fearlessly, seek to grow continuously, and consider their true selves to be the most beautiful being. People who inspire me, show me new perspectives, stretch my mind and my heart. People who resist the ideals thrust on them by the media and learn who they really are, all assumptions stripped. People who see the pain and darkness in the world but still believe in life, love, spirit, beauty.
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[Biting the Sun] [The Girls Next Door] [Embraced By the Light] [The Awakening Heart] [The Ripple Effect] [Somebody Else's Kids] [Ramses (series)] [Archangel (series)] [Hopscotch] [War of the Flowers] [Nighthorse Rider (series)] [Word and Void (series)] [Scarlett] [The Silver Metal Lover] [Just Another Kid] [One Child] [The Tiger's Child] [Harry Potter (series)] [Transformed By The Light] [Life After Life] [Closer To The Light] [The Dreaming Tree] [Memory, Sorrow, and Thorn (series)] [TrueFaced]
[Joan Slonczewski] [Tanith Lee] [Betty Eadie] [Torey Hayden] [Sharon Shinn] [Judith Tarr] [Pauline Gedge] [Michael J. Roads] [Stephen Leigh] [Christian Jacq] [Tad Williams] [Alexandra Ripley] [Julio Cortazar] [Lindsy Van Gelder & Pamela Brandt] [C.J. Cherryh] [Terry Brooks] [Melvin Morse, M.D.] [J. K. Rowling] [Zilpha Keatley Snyder] [Stephen Lawhead] [Douglas Adams] [Alan Dean Foster] [C. S. Lewis] [Naomi Wolf]
[apoptygma berzerk] [shiny toy guns] [dream art science] [noe venable] [the echoing green] [mutemath] [the cranberries] [silversun pickups] [massive attack] [dead can dance] [p.j. harvey] [missy higgins] [savage garden] [the benjamin gate] [e. s. posthumus] [sam sparro] [dolores o'riordan] [t.A.T.u.] [fauxliage] [jamie blake] [orenda fink] [butterfly boucher] [massivivid] [lily allen] [deepika] [heather nova] [coldplay] [darren hayes] [azure ray] [ké] [bitter:sweet] [8mm] [vixtrola] [earthsuit] [fono] [lifehouse] [dot allison] [neulander] [tonic] [angie aparo] [plumb] [kosheen] [jem] [halou] [flunk] [si*se] [venus hum] [mukala] [morcheeba] [royksopp] [little dragon] [dresden dolls] [mythos] [schiller] [amethystium] [conjure one] [delerium] [kate havnevik] [enigma]
[Sarah Grimké] [Andrea Dworkin] [Robert Jensen] [Angelina Jolie] [Lily Allen] [Paul Rudd] [Claudia Black] [Sam Sparro] [James Marsters] [Christopher Judge] [Michael Shanks] [Butterfly Boucher] [Betty Eadie] [Amanda Palmer] [Juan Mann] [Torey Hayden] [Adam Sandler] [Sara Ramirez] [Dolores O'Riordan] [Drew Barrymore] [Omar Epps] [Matthew Perry] [Jack Black] [Jay Mohr] [Leisha Hailey] [Ryan Phillippe] [Brian Molko] [Katheryn Winnick] [Grizz Chapman] [Mia Tyler] [Carl Rogers] [P!nk] [George Washington Carver] [Christina Aguilera] [John Ripley Forbes] [James Marsden] [Lee Pace] [Zach Braff]
[Anders Zorn] [Frank Frazetta] [Norman Lindsay] [Tamara de Lempicka] [William Etty] [Guillaume Seignac] [Luis Ricardo Falero] [John William Godward] [Delphin Enjolras] [William Bouguereau] [Herbert James Draper] [Louis Corinth] [Frederick Carl Frieseke] [Pierre-Auguste Renoir] [Paul Desire Trouillebert] [Cynthia Sheppard] [Michael Whelan] [Willow Jenkinson] [Willow Arlenea] [Ma Deva Padma] [Liiga Smilshkalne] [Jean Tay] [Benita Winckler] [Linda Bergkvist] [Jana Schirmer] [Paien Skye] [Jake Probelski] [Bao Pham] [Diane Özdamar] [Jessica Oyhenart] [Roc Upchurch] [Michaël Zancan] [Kajsa Flinkfeldt] [Vitaly S. Alexius] [Larry MacDougall] [Royce Deans] [Stephanie Dodson] [Desirée Isphording] [Paul Knight] [Steven C. Edwards] [Katherine R. Barber]
[Playing By Heart] [Kiss Me Again] [The Matrix (series)] [Foxfire] [Ever After] [I Could Never Be Your Woman] [A Lot Like Love] [The Guitar] [The Golden Compass] [I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry] [Harry Potter (series)] [Garden State] [Fingersmith] [Stardust] [Something New] [The Object of My Affection] [Girl Interrupted] [Guess Who] [Edge of America] [Music and Lyrics] [Happy Gilmore] [Big Daddy] [50 First Dates] [Mr. Deeds] [Never Been Kissed] [8 Mile] [Life Or Something Like It] [School of Rock] [A.I. Artificial Intelligence] [Bruce Almighty] [Calendar Girls] [The Holiday] [The Island] [Lord of the Rings] [Soldier's Girl]
[Moonlight] [Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip] [The L Word] [Scrubs] [Grey's Anatomy] [Journeyman] [Ghost Whisperer] [Xena] (I hate TV itself but I do watch some shows on DVD (the ads are the most toxic part of TV)) |
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I support: Equality Now, Georgia Equality, CHRIS Kids, RAINN, Legal Momentum, Full Radius Dance, Oyate, Big Trees Forest Preserve, & The Snow Leopard Trust
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· · · up for sale on my etsy · · ·
(at least 50% of profits go to the charities listed above):
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have one of these and don't want it? I'll trade you! at BookMooch.com
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