Patience is the key. One must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert.
Secondly. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.
Another key is honesty. Be very honest about your physical look and career. A good relationship has never been built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.
You’re the man. Many women are looking for men who are confident and decisive, who can be relied on to get things done. On a date, take command but don't be to assertive. Always be flexible. Inexpensive dates conducive to getting to know each other include the a museum, cinema or miniature golf. In addition to saving you money, these low-cost dates also minimize the feeling that you have to "spoil" her or "buy" her affection with an extravagant wining-and-dining evening. And if she likes you, she won’t mind a "cheap" date; she just wants to be with you.
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