A Map to Your Goals
By Cindi Myers
The movie, What the ?*&! Do We Know? explores the idea
that our perception of reality affects that reality Š that we can influence our
own futures more than we may realize.
IÕve long been a believer in writing down my goals and
dreams as a way of putting them Ōout thereÕ in the universe, and reminding my
subconscious to be on the lookout for every opportunity to make these goals and
dreams reality. Recently I discovered another tool that IÕve found to be even
more effective.
ItÕs called Goal Mapping. Because we respond so well to
visual stimulus, goal mapping gives our brains a picture of what our goal looks
like Š and what the steps to achieving that goal look like as well. Developed
by Bryan Mayne, goal mapping is an easy and fun tool for goal setting.
If youÕd like to make your own goal map, itÕs a simple
process. Step one involves brainstorming about your goals. You might write down
a list, but for the purposes of a goal map, you should pick one primary goal to
illustrate.
Then think about why this goal is the one you chose. What
emotions does the idea of reaching this goal kindle in you? We respond best to
things we can feel passionate about. Since some goals can take years to reach,
itÕs good to choose one thatÕs significant enough to inspire us on the
sometimes long road ahead.
Next, youÕre going to find a picture or pictures to
illustrate this goal and what it means to you. You could draw the picture
yourself if youÕre a better artist than I am. You can cut images from magazines
or download them from the web or photoshop your own snapshots. Or you could use
a combination of all three.
LetÕs say your goal is to become successful enough as a
writer that you can quit your day job. So you might use a picture of yourself
at your desk, working, with the words ŌFull Time WriterÕ underneath. You might
have a picture of a retirement party, with a banner proclaiming ŌGood Luck,
Yourname.Õ Whatever quitting your day job means to you, find some pictures to
illustrate that.
Next, think about what steps youÕll need to take to get to
this goal. Depending on where you are in your journey, you might need to start
with publishing a first novel, or even finishing one. Next might come subsequent
sales, bigger contracts, more savings in the bank. Whatever you think it will
take to reach your ultimate goal, list these steps. Then find pictures to
illustrate them.
You might have images of contracts, booksignings, dollar
signs, paying off your house Š whatever resonates with you and makes you think
of that step.
Then get out a sheet of colored paper, some glue and a
marker. Paste the picture or pictures that illustrates your ultimate goal at
the top of the page. Write a caption underneath to describe the goal. Then add
your other illustrations to the page, underneath the big goal. Start at the
bottom left hand corner of the page with the first step, then move left to
right and up the page. Add a caption for each step.
When youÕre done, youÕll have an illustrated ŌmapÕ of what
you need to achieve to reach your goal. Now put this some place where youÕll
see it every day. Having this visible reminder will nudge you to do something
every week or every day toward achieving your goal.
IÕve found goal maps are useful tools for all kinds of goals
Š not just writing. If youÕre training to run a marathon, you might post a goal
map with an illustration at the top of you crossing the finish line, and
pictures below showing the various training steps you need to take and things
you need to do like registering for the race, etc.
Goal mapping works for me because it forces me to think
about what my goal means to me and why I chose this as a goal. It also requires
that I come up with concrete steps I can take to reach the goal. Since my goal
map is posted right beside my computer, I see it every day when I sit down to
work, so it keeps my goal in my mind.
If youÕd like to know more about goal mapping, you can check
out Bryan MayneÕs site at http://www.positivelymad.co.uk/pd/goalmap.htm
Cindi Myers is the author of almost two dozen romance and
women's fiction novels. Her most recent releases are My Backwards Life ,
(Harlequin Next, September 2005) and Learning Curves , (Signature Select,
October 2005). Visit her on the web at http://www.CindiMyers.com